Ok after sat's big ordeal I've decided to recommit to plan a and stop the destructive Lb that had occured. but i dotn know how to handle situations where i feel insecure? I mean like last nighnt i had to run out to the gas station by the time i rean to the car i ran back in b/c i forgo tmy card. come to findout my H has turned his phone on. he claims hes checking for msgs. but the ow is not supposed to have his phone number. he said he was just checking it. which is possiable not sure though. and now i just feel so insecure he has reassured me and even admitted how susupoius it looks. i dont know what to think. and i'm trying hard not to LB. any ideas on what i can do. b/c my gut wants me to keep asking him. also on his phone on friday he cleared out all the numbers? i dont know why he did it and i haven tmentioned that to him. he knows if hes calling ow i will find out when the bill comes!

should i say anything else about this or wait till next month on the 2c nd when the bill comes?

You can ask him anything, just drop with the angry outbursts and the disrespectful judgments. Quit calling him at work and shrieking accusations at him.

You need to keep checking up on him, but don't make accusations based on mere suspicions, find out if your suspicions are TRUE first. Can you access his bill online? With many cell phones you can see the bill online as the calls occur.

If he is clearing out all the phone #s on his cell phone, he is most likely STILL in contact. So, see if you can get his bill online.