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#1161095 07/20/04 02:41 PM
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To those of you who know my situation, I would like to say all is going better than I expected with my marriage.
I am starting to feel like this whole cruddy situation can be overcome. I have been spending tons of time with my wife we have been doing great considering where we were a month ago.
I do still have my visions that creep up on me like a thief in the night, but I am learning to deal with them alot better. It has not all been happy but there have been some really great times between us. It almost feels like we just met sometimes. I am still insecure as is my wife with me but we are starting to rebuild our trust for one another.
I cant believe I am where I am at,just the same my wife is amazed at how well we are doing.
The affair is now talked about as a reflection of what can happen even when 2 people love each other so much. Yep I can honestly say with belief MY WIFE LOVES ME. She has been so strong and committed to me. I am starting to feel like she will never do it again, instead of asking what if she does it again. The roller coaster is flattening out,, not gone but definately no steep drops. I hope,,,no,,,, I know we have learned from this and it will allways be a reminder, and a deterent from future affairs.

Feeling Good!!!!

#1161096 07/20/04 03:45 PM
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eric n.,

Wow. H and I have talked a few times about how impressive your recovery is.

You were willing to put down your pride and step back into your M with all your heart.

Great going.

I am so happy for you.

Please keep us posted.

Blessings to you both,
RAP

#1161097 07/20/04 03:46 PM
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Do I know you...??

Have we met??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

sounds great eric...really glad....

ark


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