Ok this is getting ridiculus things have been going expectionally well and i started to think this was for real. well today my H has a BAD day at work an dguess what he takes it out on me@ (something he didnt start till the A and he hasnt been able to knock it off since then) What he does is treat me like a piece of crap b/c he cant be mean to the people at work and i can not deal with it any longer.

First i was on the phone with him and he was complaining cause i was aksing him questions about his day. he said why dont i just put a video camera in my cubicle!!! but if and when i dont ask he complains were not "one" and i dont care!!

Then he just hangs up no goodbye no ilove you etc. then my D called him back to say goodnight then i get on the phone i say whats wrong hes like can we just talk about this when i get off. he said nothings wrong. then he says hold on and his employees come by and hes talking to them all nice i wanted to PUKE right then and there.

this happens like once every other week things get going real good then he LB and gives me an attidude b/c he CAN NOT deal with the stress at his work or stress at all.

But this was never ever an issue b/4 OW. actually thats how i first got susupioius was when he started treating me badly b/c that had never happend before. now at this time i dont think he's in the A i just think its a habbit that hes not putting much effort in to break! i'm scared this will turn into an augument in the next 30 min when he gets off of work. i can not let him walk all over me. but i dont want to lb... i'm so fustrated!

UGHH i talked with him... and you know what he makes me so mad.

he was being all sweet baby ntohings wrong i was having a bad day blah blah.
then he said when i ask him questions about who'se calling etc that he feels like i'm prying. i made the point that naytime we are on the phone and i get another phone call he always says whose that or who was that.... why cant i do the same? he said nothing. then he said lets not fight tonight. i'm mad b/c if eel like in order for us to be happy ihave to shut up and not tell him my feelings and thats not good b/c our number one problem (besides OW) is not communicating.s o when i try its not a good time for him and i guarnetee the time will never be good for him!!! ughhh.. i am fustrated i finnanly just got off the phone before i LB.