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No, it is not the OM, which quite honestly I would prefer since she could see him warts and all. It is her bestest friend that help set up the entire A. This is getting laughable.
BTW I have finally started to expose the affair to WW best friend's and as I suspected they were told that it was ME THAT WAS HAVING AN A. Supposedly she forgave me but I MOVED OUT to be with my supposed A partner. They admitted it just did not ring true knowing my squeaky clean reputation( in a small community doctors's are prime gossip fodder). When I was single and first moved here , I stayed away from the hospital/nurse/dr triage to the extent that the rumors about me was that I was gay. I must say my personal and professional reps are something I am very proud of.
Stay tuned for the continuing saga of "True Lies"
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Cymanca, I think I agree with your acessment. I too think it would be better if it were OM, though still very painful.
My WW is spending lots of time with her friend, who also knows of the OM, and she is also separating from her husband. Two peas in a pod supporting each other. Misery loves company.
Wish WW would go to OM. Be with him. Seek her fortune. She is keeping up the facade of "There is no A" for the divorce and children I guess.
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Well I am now hearing from WW's working friends and and more of our married friends. The true story has finally gotten out about our pending divorce. It is so bittersweet to hear apologies from people that WW had convinced that I was responsible( and having an affair). I see that this scenario has been put in place by my WW over a year ago. I am pretty sure that the A was and is an exit A and while I am glad I went to Plan B early, my M never had a chance. It is like a cold slap in the face, but like Plan B says, it is done to get YOURSELF on the road to your new life.
I guess I will never know what led my M to this end and I am sure my STBXW has no reason nor need to give me any creditable response either
Grief has been replaced by a soul chilling numbness.
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