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Phone call - what's your take? #1165355 07/30/04 02:33 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316 2 2B Us Again OP Member
OP 2B Us Again Member 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316	What do you take of this.....I got a phone call last night, unknown name/unknown number, that is how all of the OW calls shows up. I have a block on my phone so blocked calls can't come through, but she must call from a business or something, anyway... I answer the phone and guess who it is..yeah OW. But the only thing she says is, "I'm Back!", what the hell is that suppose to mean. I was beyond pissed <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> when H got home and I flat out asked when was the last time he talked to the OW and he said a few months ago when she called last and he told her to never call again, he did tell me about the call! He promised he's had no contact with her in anyway and I should feel secure in that??? (Yeah) What do you think?

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165356 07/30/04 04:22 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 9 P PaleRider Junior Member
PaleRider Junior Member P Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 9	Its a hard one. Many years ago I was the one having an affair. When I broke it off, the OW procceded to make life hell for us as she would not leave us alone, kept phoning me and my wife. Did she take kindly to the A ending?

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165357 07/30/04 04:40 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	I think you should trust............but verify. Watch your back, girl.

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165358 07/30/04 04:47 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	What do you think? I think OW was possibly drunk and pissed off and felt "abandoned" and "misused" and decided that tweaking you would help her feel better about her misery ... Give your H the benifit of the doubt this time.... If the A is back on, you'll know soon enough.... Kiss your H and tell him you are so happy he's home.... in other words, make a love bank deposit today ... and say some prayers tonight! But, remain watchful.... she may try to stir up trouble. Pep

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165359 07/30/04 04:51 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316 2 2B Us Again OP Member
OP 2B Us Again Member 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316	No she didn't taking the ending of the relationship good at all Pale. I talked to her 3 times after I opened Pandora's Box, but it was nothing but lie after lie. I didn't realize it at the time but when my H confronted her the last time she called him she denied things that were discussed between her and I and said I was the liar. Before their final phone call (from what H says)she called multiple times at his work saying she was someone else so they would put her through, emailing him, or calling the house.

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165360 07/30/04 05:00 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316 2 2B Us Again OP Member
OP 2B Us Again Member 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316	<small>[ August 15, 2004, 05:48 PM: Message edited by: 2B Us Again ]</small>

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165361 07/30/04 05:04 PM
Joined: Jan 2001 Posts: 17,837 O Orchid Member
Orchid Member O Joined: Jan 2001 Posts: 17,837	Work on getting proof to file an RO against her. Both you and your H since now the OW seems to want to make your life miserable. BTW, that OW isn't in the bay area is she? !??! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> L.

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165362 07/30/04 05:11 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316 2 2B Us Again OP Member
OP 2B Us Again Member 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316	No, not in the bay area but close!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Re: Phone call - what's your take? #1165363 07/30/04 08:21 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316 2 2B Us Again OP Member
OP 2B Us Again Member 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 316	Sometimes the OW sound so much like the same person it's scarey isn't it?? Actions of the WS are so similar also it's all just weird!

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