Are there any success stories out there? Also are there any WH who could maybe shed some light?????

Sucess here, my FWW and I have been on the road to recovery for about three months now and things are going great! Prior to that she had moved out although briefly, filed for divorce, and finally ran off with OM.

I would say without hesitation that MB saved our M.

Best of luck to you and always remember that IT'S A GREAT DAY TO BE ALIVE!!!!!!!

Thanks MR. E. We all needed to hear that. I've been in this struggle for 8 months now.

WS moved out for 5 months and then we tried to work on things. She never moved back in but began spending the weekends. That lasted 2 months and it was, I thought, wonderful.

Then she made contact with OM. She came to me just 4 days after sleeping with me and said that she couldn't fight her feelings for OM any more, and her heart was telling her she was in love with him and needed to be with him.

But she also said she loved me, and that I was a wonderful man. This was the hardest thing she's ever had to do in her life ( telling me it was over again). The next day she flew off to be with OM. I haven't heard from her in almost 2 weeks. I'm in a bad way here. Starting to lose hope.

She did call her mom and said that maybe 2 months wasn't enough time to work on us.

She had told me that she really tried in those 2 months to get the feelings back that she used to have for me, but it wasn't happenning. What do I do now? I layed down a good plan A while we were together. I'm hoping she sees through this, and her thoughts of the wonderful me steer her back to me. I don'y know how long I can hold on.....