H and I have been back 2gether for a year now. He had an A w/ a W that worked for him April-June of last year. I moved 2 hours away back to my hometown where my family is. He moved in w/ me in Nov of last year after the OW got him fired from his job. We still own a house 2gether in the town we lived at b4. We currently have it up for sale. I refuse to move back. Not only b/c I love being near my family again, I love my new job, and I don't want to risk running into the OW on a daily basis. We still go back on the weekends to pack things up at the house and get it ready to sell. Back in May H and I seen the OW at the bar w/ her current BF. She never looked my way but she knew I was there as she had to walk past me several times to get to the bar. Every time she walked past I just glared at her. She would just smile at any friends of mine I was talking to. She probably thinks it's funny that I can't stand her and she is making my life a living he!! whenever I see her.
Sometimes I just want to walk up to her and thank her for having an A w/ my dh b/c if it weren't for her I wouldn't be living in my
hometown where my family is and working at a job that I love. If it weren't for her I would still be stuck doing a job I hated and being unhappy b/c I lived so far from my family (we are close). But then again, I just want to go up to her and punch the daylights out of
her. If you see the OW/OM how do you handle it?

Hi TF,

I would say that if you are just waiting to sell your house then ignore the OW and don't go to that bar anymore where you may encounter her.She is nothing and has already moved on to her next victim.

In my case,I don't have to see the homewrecker but I have had some bad thoughts about revenge.Not death or anything but definite payback in a way she would never see coming nor know for sure by whom.I am still struggling with those thoughts even though I know it's a waste of my time.

The best revenge is living well so do it.Stay away from the trash,know what I mean? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />


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my exH married OW, but when they pick up daughter, i pay no attention to her, of course it hurts inside, i would say ignore her, and avoid her as much as you can.

You are a better person , you are handling it well . YOU are a women . If ya want to thank her buy her a drink from across the bar and raise your glass to her LOL only kidding .

Like Oct. said. your leaving never to lay eyes on her after house is sold .

Second half of the post how would I handle it ...

Well driving , I would run her over several times.

FAce to face I would beat her head into the ground just to see if there where brains in there .

OK thats why MY H makes sure we never run the risk of running into OW LOL . <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I got issues <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

BUT I can't say I don't tell the trueth .