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Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177076 08/25/04 05:17 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 20 R Really Messed Up OP Junior Member
OP Really Messed Up Junior Member R Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 20	I,ve only been on for 2 days,and i got some pretty harsh words from some of you out there and rightfully so.My A has caused so much damage and yet my H still loves me as he always has,He is awesome and i do love him i truly want to be us again.I wrote another no contact letter to my ex and this time i will never look back,i am aware that the withdrawl will come but im strong enough to do this.I want to thank everyone for there advise even though some of it really hurt but truth always does.How do i start or where do i start so my H and i can be us again.R.M.U

Re: Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177077 08/25/04 05:32 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	You said in an earlier post your H is on MB... Who is he? Pep

Re: Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177078 08/25/04 05:36 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Thats a good start, RMU. I would open your life up to your H so he knows where you are at all times. Give him your cell phone password, voicemail, etc. And just be prepared to tough out withdrawal. Come here and talk to us instead of picking up the phone and calling the OM. Or pick up the phone and call your H instead, just make sure you have a plan in place. You made the right decision, RMU. You can be happy in this marriage with a little work, but you can also regain your SELF RESPECT in the process. Good job. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Re: Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177079 08/25/04 05:50 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	What books on this subject have you read? Pep

Re: Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177080 08/25/04 05:58 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 200 L lostsailor Member
lostsailor Member L Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 200	RMU...Glad to hear you have started this ride. My WW appears to be in day four of withdrawal. It's rough on her and rough on me. Hopefully, the fog will lift and we can start rebuilding soon..... The advice you've gotten so far is something I wish my WW would do. That is: open up to me tell me where she's at (regain trust) tell me what she's feeling (even if it hurts me) let me know she wants to work on our marriage That would help me. The other advice about coming here or calling your husband instead of calling OM is something I would like to restate (from ML). If I were on the receiving end of that phone call, I would be elated. I think you'll find your husband would much rather here from you than suspect/find out you didn't really NC OM. Good Luck and God Bless.....LS

Re: Brutal Truth Hurts But Helped #1177081 08/25/04 07:19 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 20 R Really Messed Up OP Junior Member
OP Really Messed Up Junior Member R Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 20	In response to your question about my H being on here he is Hurting&Scared.R.M.U.

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