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Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178035 08/27/04 01:05 AM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	Thought it might be interesting to see what everybody could come up with for good Plan A text messages to send to WW. We get points for confusing the WW right? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I sent this one tonight even though WW is visiting A in another state. "You are a good person and I love you." Or how about just a "Have a good day" first thing in the morning. I like the idea because they can't not read it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Ideas anyone???

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178036 08/27/04 01:17 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	I sent a txt to my wifes 'secret' cellphone yesterday and got "f@ck off using this phone. Think your clever don't you ?" as a reply <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I guess she thought only loverboy should use that phone. Not sure that stuff helps in plan A mate. My Mrs is so foggy I could send her Cricket scores or winning lottery numbers and she wouldn't respond to them any differently that she would a supportive message. I can't wait for contact to end and teh A to stop. THEN supportive txts will be a good idea. Good luck !

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178037 08/27/04 01:32 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 574 S shelly_3 Member
shelly_3 Member S Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 574	i sent my wh "thinking of you and hope your safe" yesterday. i got a call back 3 hours later......

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178038 08/27/04 01:33 AM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	Fortunately for me my WW is not being nearly that hostile. My WW just doesn't respond at all. The root of your WW's anger might be more directed at the fact that you sent a text to her secret phone. If it had been to her other phone it might have been more accepted. Actually, it was your post about this that inspired me to start this topic. I think that texting is a good idea it just has to be sincere and in the true spirit of Plan A. Shmaley

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178039 08/27/04 06:43 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 222 C canthishelp Member
canthishelp Member C Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 222	I just snooped and found my wifes email at work. Since she works with the OM, I am going to send NICE, LITTLE things to her. She only works evenings, so I have the weekend to think of what to send.

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178040 08/27/04 07:06 AM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	Be sure to let us know what you think of canthishelp. And check back here for ideas.

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178041 08/27/04 01:22 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	"I hope your having a wonderful day!" Remember in SAA where the only way Jon could make contact with WW was through e-mail and phone. This is exactly my situation. WW is totally avoiding me. Sort of hard to deposit Love units in this situation. So for me this is the only way. <small>[ August 27, 2004, 01:30 PM: Message edited by: shmaley ]</small>

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178042 08/27/04 01:28 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	"try not to have sex with anyone on the way home" seriously I sent " always remember that I care for you " earlier.

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178043 08/27/04 01:59 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	LOL BP. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I like the second one a lot.

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178044 08/28/04 08:17 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	SHM, I just TXT my WW thison her affair cellphone ( that I call the BA(s)TPHONE) </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I pray we can fix this mess eventually you know. I don't NEED you back anymore but I really WANT u back 'cos I still luv U. Anyway...CU with coffee in a bit :-x </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Not an LB, but very factual. I'll let u know how it works.

Re: Plan Aer's text messaging ideas #1178045 08/28/04 09:47 AM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339 S shmaley Member
shmaley Member S Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 339	Good luck BP.

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