HI all.......well I havent heard from WH probably about 2 weeks now.

Thus meaning, I beleive I will hear something soon, especially that my first child support payment from him will be coming up first week in September.

Since my D is the only one speaking to him, would it be alright, if i handed her the phone if he calls. Would it be ok, if she were the go between. Im in plan b, and its working good for me, i dont want to talk on the phone with him. It would be a set-back for me emotionally. I am enjoying this plan b dark ( a poster did say, plan b can be quite enjoyable).

If he were to show up unexpectedly, I should just leave out another door when i hear him come in. Is that correct?

I must mention my D looks for reasons to converse with him or see him. It would not be a burden on her. She is very mature for her age.

Its just that i dont have anyone to use as a go between for plan b and i beleive its very important now to go dark, dark.

2 weeks ago he said he would be by for more of his things, i am dreading it so much. Sometimes i think i could be in the other end of the house, walk out to the kitchen and find him there.

I picture that and i think what would i do in that situation???????

Anyway, thanks for your replys and being so patient with me. Prayers to all in this horrible phase of our lives.

A/C0810

Plan B is very peaceful. I would not answer the phone if it is him. He can leave a message for his daughter to call him.

When he comes to get his things, go see a friend, or go driving, just stay away.

Plan B is your best chance of saving your marriage.