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Can adult children (and other family) do an effective Plan B as well as the BS?
I realize this is pure fantasy for most - but I'm doing a lot of hindsight thinking these days. And I wonder if I'd known about this site and its philosophy's and if I'd done a Plan B - is it possible that it would have been as effective as a BS going Plan B?
Just curious as to your thoughts....
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Well, they can I guess. In my situation, W's whole family is Plan Bing her. I don't know how effective it would be for most. So far, it hasn't changed my Ws mind really.
We'll have to see in the end if it really made a difference or not.
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i have a friend who has two wonderful, and i mean wonderful, grown children. her ws is now out of the house and basically living with ow. her sons wont speak or have any contact with him. their position is come home and do the right thing or be out of our lives forever. it is their choice, she never influenced them a bit. it was the way they were raised....they are young men with morals. they have a sense of right and wrong and wont accept it just because everyone says they should....
it is tough but they have made a stand for what they believe in and it is amazing to see.....most adults dont even do that.
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