((((((((((((((((Tree, We care)))))))))))))))))))))

If it gets too bad there, come to California and bring your son. No Hurricanes here, no problems.

Believer,

The news today predicted a 6+ earthquake in CA within the next 4 days. Hmmmmm. Come to the heartland, we don't have hurricanes or earthquakes...we just have tornado's.

2scared

Thanks ya'll!!!

Tree

2scared -

Yikes an earthquake! I work in a hospital that can't withstand a 7 earthquake on the Reichter scale. Thanks for the info.

Tree - Hang in there sweetie. You might have to wait 4 days to come to California. Wouldn't want you to come here for the earthquake.

Oh dear... a mess, you're all a mess.

2scared

There is only one safe place in all the world.

My porch.

GC

Tree - Please let us know which way you are headed. Last time there was a lot of worry that you went into the path of the hurricane.

I'll be praying for you today, and the rest of the folks in your part of the country.

I made it safely to my parents house in Charelston, SC.
It was a long ride. It normally only takes 6 hours to get here and it took us 9. It was crazy out on the road.
I feel much better being near my family who loves and supports me!

I had a dream last night that I was "with" my WH last night. I woke up and my heart was aching! I also had a dream that he was having a baby with OW. God...that would kill me! I wanted so badly to have another baby and we were even trying while he was seeing her. All that time I was going to a fertility doctor and he was sleeping around. GOD!!!!! How could he have been so cruel??????
I don't know how I will ever get through this pain. People say that in time I will heal......I really don't believe that. I think that we just learn to deal with it.
Pretty soon the holidays will be here and the thought of ging through that without my H is heart wrenching!!!!!
How do we get through this?????

Of course you will heal, Tree. You'll have scars but you'll heal. And you'll get through it.

I would suggest that if your folks spend too much time on the "move on" train you need to tell them that no amount of hearing that will make it happen any faster. If you're anything like me, hearing about how you have to move on frustrates the heck out of you.

Have a nice weekend with your folks. I'm glad you went.

GC

Ditto to everything gc said!

Charleston is beautiful!

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Graycloud...
Thanks! No, my parents aren't telling me to move on...I'm just saying that other people say that.
I will try to enjoy my time here and let my heart and soul relax!

Tree,

I'm so glad you got out of the state. They are still saying Orlando will get hit hard. I'm in Tampa Bay area, and we may once again be spared...looks like the exit path will be somewhat north of us.

I totally understand how you are feeling. My H is living w/OW and apparently that is more important than me or our home. He stayed away during Charley and is staying away for Frances as well. Of course, OW's area is in the path of the storm (near you, Tree), so he has obviously made a decision (both times) that protecting her and being with her is more important that me, our home or our marriage.

I should not be surprised. His messages, unspoken, have been received loud and clear. He simply does not care. I am finally starting to understand.

ISGirl..
I know what you mean about understanding what your H is saying...or not saying. I too am finally starting to see that my H just doesn't want me. I truly think there is NO hope for us getting back together. I wish there was but he is determined to file for DV. There really isn't anything I can do about it.

I wish you luck and god bless....

I am new to this site, but I was just watching the news about this hurricane and was concerned. God Bless You and I am definitely praying for you.

Be Safe.

tree reich and other FL folks -

I have been watching the hurricane on TV. Hope you are all safe. My prayers are with you.