Hi everyone! Sorry it has been so long since I have posted, but it has been crazy here! I guess I should update you and then I will explain my "name change" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
4 weeks ago I kicked my WH out because he was still contacting preganant OW saying that he NEEDED to contact her because she was preganant! It was getting obsessive so I told him he had to leave on a Sunday afternoon! He did not want to go! He begged me to stay! I stood strong and told him he could stay as long as he stopped seeing her and stopped calling her...he said he couldn't do that! So off he goes! He took all of his clothes, and both of his cars!
After he left I wanted to go into Plan B. We were still seeing our marriage counselor and I told her that week that I kicked him out...she wanted to make sure I meant what I said. I told her that I wanted a Divorce and I meant it! I had to completely remove myself from the situation at hand and get on with my life!
Even though I do love my WH, I cannot go on this way with him thinking he can have both of us. Yes, OW is PG, but that can be handled!
WH called me a lot! He tried to stay in the kids lives. I held strong on not calling him. One time he called in the middle of th night, I did not answer the phone. But I wanted so badly to KNOW what he wanted...
Maybe he called to tel me he wanted to come home
Maybe he called to tell me he loves me and wants to work things out
Maybe he called to tell me that He broke it off with OW
all these things went thru my head, finally I called him! UGH! The only thing he wanted to tell me was that she wasn't with him that night! I told him that I didnt' care! I asked him not to cal me anymore...he called me again and again and asked me why I was picking up the phone! ARGH!
I never said I was in a STELLAR Plan B! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
I found out that he went to Austin on a conference and took OW with him...OH, that is real good..and what did she do all day??? He was cold to me when he called from the room, but all lovey dovey when he called me from the conference!
He was supposed to come back to town on Friday afternoon...I called and called, he never called me back..I finally put out an APB on him! oNly to find out he was WITH her and had his fone off! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
That did it! I didn't talk to him that whole week, that I remember!
I wanted to fly up to Dallas on Aug 21, so I called him that friday and asked if he was busy that weekend, told him why I wanted to know, but didn't tell him where I was going! The conversation was BAD...he hung up saying "well, you need something from me, and your not getting it until you tell me where you are going" I said "fine"
He thought I was going to LA to see a frined!
He came by Friday night, I thought to stay the night, cuz I had to catch a flight very early the next morning. It turned into a horrible night! he was cold, I was cold...he wanted to see the kids...He left about 9:00, I didnt' know if he was going to come in the morning or not! I assumed NOT...
apparently I left the phone off the hook, cuz he tried to call me about 7 times throughtout the night that night. I got up at 5:00 and started to get reaady, he showed up at 6:30...WOW! I was surprised as you know what! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
He said he wanted to drive me to the airport, which surprised me! I asked him why? he said he need the burb that weekend. hmmmmm?
He drove me to the airport, got out of the car and kissed me on the cheek first, then on the mouth. he said I was beautiful and to have a great time!
I didnt' call him when I got there...but he called me about 9:30 and said "oh, your there?"
I didn't call him all weekend, but he sure called me! Each time he knew I was having a splendid time! I didn't even think twice of him! I didn't care! I was free! I relaxed and had a wonderful time! We talked a lot, and he said he needed to end it with her...fog, blah, fog, blah! sure whatever honey!
more to come...back in a bit!
