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Actually Jennie, it's likely that most affairs stop BEFORE being found out - in large part because of the constant threat that they'll be exposed. Of those that get discovered and then end, it's usually due to the ramifications of further exposure along with dying a natural death.
This forum is chock full of experiences on this topic. Please read the background material in the infidelity areas and read the link in my sig line below and all the embedded links.
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Thanks for the advice, I already read all that and did what it says, I just wonder what everybody says from experience as my H doesn't conform to alot of ideas here. He is trying to ease my pain, calls me several times a day to say where he is and is alot like he was pre A. He doesn't get angry when I ask questions and is very shameful for what he has done.
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Jennie - I read your other posts and I'm confused as to what you're seeking in this one. It appears the affair is over and you two have an opportunity for recovery. Why are you asking about exposure? Your (former) WS probably doesn't "conform" to a lot of the stories you've read here because it sounds like he got his head out of his butt right away. Good for you!! Good for him!!
He could do well to read here also.
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Thanks for the reply, I'm just looking for something to find hope in I think!
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