I have a few days off this week. Thought I would get out of town. I am going to WH brother's and SIL house several hours away.

Tomorrow is WH birthday. I'm sure he will be upset that he doesn't hear from me. Last Sunday when I discovered that he was still in contact with OW, and he told me he was trying to "let her down easy". I told him this was unacceptable to me. Plan B again.....

Haven't heard one peep from WH. What do you think he is doing? This thought keeps playing on my mind.

WH told me last Sunday that I was the one he wants...but if that's TRUE (and I use that word very sparingly - WH has lied soooo much), why should it take him so long to get out of his A?

The fact that he's been "with" OW for 3+ years? He still loves her? He's a cake-eating, fence sitting piece of crap?

Or is he trying to out stubborn me?

I'm standing firm.... he needs to do what I ask (NC letter, give cell phones back, etc), or he doesn't even need to come around or call!

Better get ready to go! K

Translation:

"Let her down easy"

means.... "fence sit a bit longer" and also means "hurt my wife longer".

Have a GREAT weekend. Have fun. Relax. Laugh. Cry. Be confident.... hear me? BE CONFIDENT! Confidence is attractive!

Pep <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Thanks, Pep...

I think you are right!

I told WH last Sunday that everytime he called OW to try to not hurt her, he was hurting me.

Guess he got the no contact message this time.

It's hard......But, I think I will be fine!

Planning on having a good time with BIL, SIL, and other SIL. So glad I have them.

Thanks.....K