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#1189123 09/23/04 05:17 PM
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I chickened out on asking her to do something. I will talk to her Saturday so i can ask her then or something. She was really friendly with me, like how she used to talk to me. that is a good sign. I feel nervous when I call her now like when we first started dating. It's weird.

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Sounds familiar...I want to be more agressive with my WH as he starts to show signs of the self I fell in love with yet I am nervous much like I was in the beginning of our relationship! I also am contemplating asking H if he wants to go see a band that we used to see religiously together whenever they were in town....BUT I AM SCARED! I almost feel like he should be the one asking!

I hope all goes well and that you guys continue to make more positive strides ( :

-K

ME: 28 yo faithful wife of 3.5 years
Him: 30 yo unfaithful H who had 4 month affair last fall, dropped bomb on May 22, 2004, immediately left me, and has been in an angry fog ever since...think the fog may be starting to lift??? He has 1 year lease in another apartment while I have stayed put in the condo we used to lease together.

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Yes, I feel the same way. Like she should be coming to me. I think she will start to do that more once she is in her new place. Right now things are still a bit wierd until the 1st of October. She did talk of doing things together like a while in the future. We are Spongebob fans and she said we will see that together. it doesn't even come out until November.


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