sorry......

<small>[ September 27, 2004, 10:41 AM: Message edited by: mb_lurker ]</small>

Hello and sorry you are here as well.

Well, you followed your gut, and what has happened doesn't look good to me. I'm sure you already feel this in your heart and you're looking for someone to confirm you feelings--i say something is totally up--why else would he delete that number?

Where do you go from here? This is so hard, having been there myself. My situation is somewhat similar--when i confronted him about the call on the cell phone, he lied, then made up a phony reason for calling. I let it go--stupid me. Less than a month later, i found a note in his pocket from her, saying that she thought he looked absolutely gorgeous in everything that he wore (barf!).

If i were you (and if i had my situation to do over), i'd get that number and call her immediately. Tell her you know what is going on and to back off. Try to pry information from her if you want, although you'll probably get nothing or a whole slew of lies. If you know this woman is married, threaten to call her H.

You need to do something..don't just sit back and buy his excuses. Again, sorry you are here.