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when plan A'ing should you mention reconciling..
#1191498 09/29/04 08:24 PM
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Should I tell her things about like she is a goosd mom . or tell her that she is one in a million.......should i mention reconciling at all...or how she was the anchor of the house......interior decorator ect...what should you talk about.........
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Frank

You sound good lately...you're doing great!

Here's some stuff I learned from Steve Harley:
1-Don't talk about OM ever.
2-Don't LB under any circumstances, EVER.
3-Don't hurt her.
4-Change the subject when she brings up OM or R talk or wants to start a fight.

This stuff works, Frank, plus you will feel so much better. Don't suck up to her, she is not wanting that, I guarantee you.
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thank you for your responce..every little advice is helpful......
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Check out the link in my signature. Very good plan A advice!

I wouldn't talk very much about R or M. And like What AmIDoing? said don't ever LB no matter what. Do not smother her she needs to THINK about how you are treating her (very tall order for WS). <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Jennifer C. told me "just keep planting little seeds." They will grow later. And when it gets too hard for you withdraw a little. It sounds easy but I am finding that it is a lot harder to be cool and apathetic to WS than being warm and happy. JMHO

Take Care and Good Luck.

C.

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