This is a wierd one...
I know that exposure is strongly recommended around here and I totally understand. But, there is this situation that I am aware of that goes like this.
For the purpose of this post I will refer to the men as #2 and #4 (their birth order)
Brother #2 is married and takes in brother #4 to live with them as a young, single adult to get on his feet in a new place. Well, #4 sleeps with the wife in an ongoing A of 6 mos.
Life goes on, #4 leaves area, marries, then moves back to where #2 lives. I don't believe A resumes but they are all in this very small community.
Here's the kicker! The wife of #2 knows, #4 knows, of course, new wife of #4 knows, but the poor H (brother #2) knows nothing!!
To this day, after 20+ years, he knows nothing! They are all keeping the big huge secret. I think even relatives of the wife of #2 know but have never told.
And, since #4 and his wife no longer live there, the families visit each other with #2 still in the dark.
What are your thoughts on exposure in a wierd situation like this??
I think about it every day. And I feel so sorry for #2..what if he finds out-he will be so totally devastaed. But what is the good in telling now?
Wow. What a mess.
Would love to hear thoughts on this one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
I hope it isn't too confusing...I understand it but of course I wrote it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> so if I need to clarify just let me know
