You know, I guess I really am kind of morbid but I've been reading things lately and not commenting as much as I used to (YEA, I know a kind of welcome break for some!) but I've had this strange feeling like SHE might be posting on this site as well and it freaks me out. She betrayed her H as well and I often wonder, since she loves the internet so much, if she's been reading anything I've written and gotten info on me. Isn't this morbid? I really don't mean to be paranoid or anything but she really pulled the wool over my eyes when she was being my "friend". And I think about the pain that that caused on top of the pain of his betrayal. It's taken me too long to get past his betrayal to meet up with her on line. Maybe it's just a reflex after having to spend time with her last weekend (See earlier posts) and knowing that if it had been me and I had screwed up a good friends marriage I wouldn't want to associate with his family anymore. Why did she come? And what was my SIL up to to invite her, knowing the situation? I almost think, after their reactions at the party last week, that it had nothing to do with me but everything to do with my H and his betrayal of not leaving me for her! How weird my thoughts are lately! Then on top of it there's a possibility I might be pregnant, and she is expecting from her H as well, how even more weird!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<BR>

Chicks,<BR> That did happen, to Tired Lady, her h (TL's) told ow that TL posts here, well she OW, posted here to "apoligse" to TL, I mean can you even imagine how horrible that was for TL ? Not only had she been put through this hell, but then she had the added pain of discovering that her h had told tow about her safe place, and tow was reading all her posts. It was just sick. OW posted as Mia, if you already knew this disreguard this post.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Bozo's Deb, NO! I didn't know that and the thought that someone else who actually knows about me or the situation would be on the same site........I feel so bad for her....and for you Stonehenge....Well, I am feeling better today, took the big P Test yesterday and I am happy to say he's happy to know that we have another one coming. It kind of is more scary than any of our other two, we know we're in it for the long haul this time. It really blew my mind and I am going back and forth between weeping and laughing because I really am happy about this. Am I crazy or what?<P>------------------<BR>Chick's<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<BR>

Chicks,<BR> Congrats on the baby. Please take extra good care of yourself, and no your not crazy, just scared and happy at the same time.<P>Stonehenge,<BR> Uh huh, I thought that was you, how ya doin ?<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Chick's-<P>It happened to me to-I had been here only like 6 days when I saw a post from my H's OW's H. I knew in an instant it was him-our stories weer way to similiar. Anyhow-get my profile and go back and read what I said when I saw that. The OW and her H were very good friends of ours for like 5 years-that didn't amke it easy for me either. At this point and time I could care less if either of them were seeing what I had to say-but I would love to say a thing or two to her for her lies-which I KNOW are lies. I agree with Stonehedge-the things the OP writes are sick-so many lies. At least my H had the balls to tell me in the first place and not to try and pin the OW as souly to blame like she makes it appear he was. Pretty sad when someone can ruin so many lives for some lousy sex in a truck or in the bushes or one other place I won't mention since she lied about that too. it isn't my place to tell her H where they screwed-he will find out in his own good time she can't be honest or trustworthy.<P>Sorry-I got fired up Thank her for that too!!<P>*heartache*

It makes me wonder if Carlton is one of our poster's OM.... <P>Sure am glad he's gone! Hope he stays gone too! And doesn't need the site later because he ends up with her and then faces infidelity himself! What would we all do then? Say I told you so?