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Hi Zoomie !

Wondered how U doing buddy - our sitch's were so similar I wanted to make sure U ok and share experiences.

Ping in if you get time mate.

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Well, I don't suspect he will be too thrilled to be called a BRA!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Zoooooooom ust one look and thenmy heart when BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOm
suddenly and we were on teh moooooooooon flying highhhhhhhh in a ( somthing) skyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ooooooooooooooooooooooo

Ah used to smooch Squid to that one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Check in zoomie mate

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Bob, sorry to be so out of touch. I've been sitting in some precarious position between Plan A and recovery since mid-October. The fog had seemed to dissipate into a light mist, but it recently rolled in again when she saw someone who looked like the OM. She has been in a funk for about a week now and I have been back under the microscope. Still, I believe no contact has been holding (2 months) and my relationship with my 11 y.o. daughter has been great since my wife gave me room to be more involved. It has only been 4.5 months since D-Day, we've come a long way and I am reminded that this recovery may be a year+. Trying to hold on tight, the rollercoaster ride isn't over yet, neither are all the revelations. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

How about you?

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ZOOMIE ! Glad you alive and well mate !

It seems the rollercoaster dips aren't so low as to throw you off, thats good news. I have also noticed fog sometimes makes a return in part at least....

As for me, we're doing really well for three months NC. I'm going through an angry/sad/indignant phase these coupla days but that will go too. Squid isn't throwing herself into recovery as fast as I would like. She's throwing herself into our MARRIAGE and our LIFE but thats not quite the same thing is it ?
We'll get there I guess.

More later I have to make the kids Breakfasts.

Keep in touch mate. All blessings.


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