If so, I've got a question for you. Oh, sorry to be picky, but I'm narrowing it down even further here. Any FWH's, who really feel like they are pretty far into recovery left on MB? OK,I won't be quite that picky. H and I are 9 months from d-day, so use your judgement. I'll wait to see if any of you are still here. CV

CV, is that F for former or future. I know I shouldn't joke about that but it does get frustrating some times. Hope you get some input.
I'm trying to help LINY and he is FWH in EA. Take care.

WOE, you made me laugh. Hey where have you been? I've missed you over on my thread.

Yep, I wasn't expecting to get a ton of responses here. I guess I didn't have the luxury of being so picky. Unless I'm one of the FBSs that the FWHs are staying clear of. Oh boy, that's a thought. Well take care! I hope you and your W are doing well.CV

Yep, I'm here 55. You're not alone!! Seeya in the "Ville"!

CV55,

FWH here....we are two+ years into recovery. Let me know if I can help with anything.

Doug

Wow, I am so excited! Two FWHs actually responded to this post. I woke up in the middle of the night and I was analyzing this situation. Why are all the FWHs avoiding me? Is it because they all flew the coop after recent events on GQll? No, because over on Recovery 2334Pem put a call out and got tons of responses. Then I thought, well they just don't like me. So I started wracking my brain. After much wracking, I thought maybe it's because of some of my posts. Like the time I posted somewhat gleefully about H calling me after his STD tests. OK, it was very wrong of me to cover my mouth and laugh when he told me about that copper wire test. I should have been way more sympathetic watching him walk funny for a day. OK, I'M SORRY about that! Then I wondered if it was maybe my descriptions of my grueling interrogations concerning certain sex acts that occurred, that weren't with me. I swear I have toned down my questions. Well, except for yesterday. I thought of about 10 more to ask. As H keeps telling me, "Sex is sex. How many more questions can you ask me about it?

Anyway, now I forgot my question. If I think of it I hope you 2 great guys are around to answer it. CV

Tag,

You're it.

CN, you didn't blow this place! YEHHHH! I saw your post saying you were outta here. Made me VERY sad. But I'm a little slow this morning. Maybe it's from posting over in IDIOTVILLE. Explain the "Tag, you're it!" I'll check your reply after getting my lovely, curly, mop of hair cut. CV

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by CV55:
<strong> Wow, I am so excited! Two FWHs actually responded to this post. I woke up in the middle of the night and I was analyzing this situation. Why are all the FWHs avoiding me? Is it because they all flew the coop after recent events on GQll? No, because over on Recovery 2334Pem put a call out and got tons of responses. Then I thought, well they just don't like me. So I started wracking my brain. After much wracking, I thought maybe it's because of some of my posts. Like the time I posted somewhat gleefully about H calling me after his STD tests. OK, it was very wrong of me to cover my mouth and laugh when he told me about that copper wire test. I should have been way more sympathetic watching him walk funny for a day. OK, I'M SORRY about that! Then I wondered if it was maybe my descriptions of my grueling interrogations concerning certain sex acts that occurred, that weren't with me. I swear I have toned down my questions. Well, except for yesterday. I thought of about 10 more to ask. As H keeps telling me, "Sex is sex. How many more questions can you ask me about it?

Anyway, now I forgot my question. If I think of it I hope you 2 great guys are around to answer it. CV </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">When I read this I imagine you saying this entire paragraph in about 3 seconds and thinking to myself...."too much caffine" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

i'd have laughed at the copper wire thing too....even though it gives me cold chills

(edited because I cont spel)

Laters,

Doug

<small>[ November 05, 2004, 08:59 AM: Message edited by: d_rose ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by CV55:
<strong> CN, you didn't blow this place! YEHHHH! I saw your post saying you were outta here. Made me VERY sad. But I'm a little slow this morning. Maybe it's from posting over in IDIOTVILLE. Explain the "Tag, you're it!" I'll check your reply after getting my lovely, curly, mop of hair cut. CV </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well I guess I got over myself and decided to just ignore the a-holes. Plus I couldn't just leave without finding out what happens to one of my favorite BS could I?

What is IDOTVILLE? I guess I did miss something.

I really didn't MEAN anything my my "tag" statment . . . more of my obtuse way of saying "I'm game" for your questions.

DR...LOL!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How many more questions can you ask me about it?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">"Until you understand what the impact of your actions were and understand what a great M we can have. Until I fee comfortable enough--Hmm, maybe never!--where I don't ask questions. I'm sorry, but I just can't 'Get over it' like you are impying and until you come groveling back to me in full...you know...sorta the way you were walking that one day when you ...Don't worry though, hon. I'll take care of asking the questions. You just answer them honestly, OK?" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ November 05, 2004, 09:27 AM: Message edited by: LINY ]</small>

Well now that I look sooooo beautiful I don't feel like asking my question anymore. Nothing like a good haircut to chear a lady up. Actually I felt pretty good before the haircut as I noticed myself singing "Wild Thing" in the shower. Scary, but true!

Doug, I'm sure that wire would give many a man cold chills. In fact, I'm trying to talk H into getting the big "V". That procedure scares him. I told him it can't be as bad as that copper wire. He actually shuddered. And excuse me, if in fact you are a FWH, why haven't YOU had the experience of THE COPPER WIRE?

CN, you made my day! I'm glad I wasn't a BS you were mad at. The "Tag, you're it!" could have meant, "Yeh, you are an A%%hole, and none of us want to talk to you." Sometimes I fear my venting on here, combined with my venomous humour, might make a few FWSs a little POed at me. Anyway, I'm glad you didn't leave for good. These As just produce such raw feelings on both sides of the situation, it's easy to get triggered.

LINY, to be fair to my H, he has been very honest with me. Well, minus the 6 weeks I had to drag the truth out of him probably because of pure panic and fear. And my buddie CN can attest to some of the grueling questions I have asked my H. Unfortunately for him I am a "need to know EVERYTHING" BS. Now a little more groveling wouldn't hurt. There can never be too much groveling.

Truthfully I don't know if I feel like asking this question now. I'll take a break and think about it. Thanks all. Who in a million years would have thought little ole me would be talking to 3 men about "Vs" and that copper wire. Isn't life interesting? CV

CV hon,

Now I am irritated <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . I want to know what the darn question is....you have just left me hanging by a copper wire here... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . Would you go on and ask the question please?

HINY