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WH refuses to read my Plan B letter and will not leave. So I have been keeping the same mantra in I think a non LB way. End contact and fire her.
He says I am being ridiculous --nothing is going on you are being disgusting. We just talk about work.
The only proof on an A is a lot of phone records before I was locked out of that, 2 voicemails before I got locked out to WH from OW. One that says in is Mon. am and I haven't heard from you - You sure know how to take a good thing and make it go bad. And tm that are from memory only -- in the beginning one that just said I hate this and a month ago talking about please call in the am I am having separation anxiety.
My WH response is that he has no control over what vms or tm leave.
What do I do continue plan A and try to get more evidence?
Tell me though if a friendship with an OW bothers your W --wouldn’t you end it for your M?????
<small>[ November 18, 2004, 01:33 PM: Message edited by: tdr ]</small>
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Of course somethings going on, you aren't ridiculous at all.Have you Plan A'ed yet ?
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If he hasn't read the Plan B letter, grab it and hold it for later.
Who advised you to go to Plan B before a separation? You can't Plan B under the same roof. Period.
Continue to gather evidence as you can and Plan A, Plan A, Plan A. You have no other choice unless YOU want to leave, which isn't advisable.
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Why don't you GET proof by having him followed? Doesn't he spend the night away from home alot? I would bop in on him or have a P.I. do it. If you have it all out in the open he can't deny it anymore.
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How do they communicate? Have you checked the phone bills?
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your H is in a land all his own if he does not understand why you do not like it. My H actually takes residence there with him. I wish I had advise for you- however my H still keeps her number in his cell even though we have been in "recovery" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> since last March...
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