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According to these resaerchers, genetics factors play a key role in female infidelity. web page
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Yea, maybe. A better argument is what takes place on the Mothership. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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A true and thorough DNA test will consist of samples taken from mother,father(proposed) and child.Then the DNA is matched against what the mother gave to the child and what is left over(the fathers').
If the WW refuses a DNA test,Frank can go to court to try and get an order for a Paternity Test.
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Oops.My post was supposed to be on SoDone76's thread. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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Thats interesting. My scientific brother believes that heredity means that my FWW was programmed to be unfaithful.
She could be right, her mother and aunts were 80% lushes, highly promiscuous and unfaithful. Her sisters are 75% infidels. Subsenquent generations have also hadmultiple divorces and partners.
He could be right I guess.
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Affairs are common in my WW's family. Both males and females on her side cheat. Not every single one (that I know of), but a lot of them cheat. These are people that my WW used to tell me she would never be like, because they disgusted her. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Its funny that her fraternal twin sister (not the older one having an A herself right now) just got married, and isn't anything like the rest of her family. She had/has straightening out to do, but unlike the rest of her family, she's actually doing it.
Its my opinion that its hereditary in some cases, learned behavior in others, or some people just plain have affairs. The circumstances of my WW's A and older SIL's A have many similarities, and happened right around the same time period. To me, that could be a sign of either heredity, or learned behavior.
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Genetically disposed? Well science discovers more every day. I believe it is more learned behavior.
Take my WW family. Almost everyone in her family from P's to siblings to extended family has had a D or A. Now it is our turn to go thru it. It is totally learned behavior that my WW saw that this was near accepted behavior.
My side of the family, no D's, no A's (that I'm aware of), according to WW my family is "just perfect" (snotty tone of voice).
It's more about instilling morals in your kids and bringing them up in a good environment. Even if one is "genetically predisposed' to cheat, the right upbringing could negate that.
This is just another nature vs. nurture arguement.
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