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New here-need male insight
#1236950 12/04/04 11:23 PM
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Hi everyone,

I'm new to the site and really don't know where to begin. My WH has left us and says he doesn't want to work on the relationship right now. He feels we need to work on ourselves first. He says he is not sure if we will ever work out but hopes that when we "recreate" ourselves that perhaps we will fall in love again one day. Can any of the men here interpret that for me??
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Purchase and read Surviving an Affair, as what you are seeing and hearing are "classic" examples of your H being involved.

Until you get the book and read it, look for other signs or "red flags" in his behavior.

Be loving and kind and understanding, and, most of all, try to keep him in the home. Your first action will be to study and understand Plan A, and it's easier to do it when you are together.

This is a great site for information and support. Please continue to read and post here. There are many wise and caring people who will help you, and most of them have been through this, or currently are in a crisis of their own.

Best wishes
SD
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Natasha

Update please?

SD

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