My WW keeps telling me she never felt like I was attracted to her. I've had some problems dealing with sex and was always REALLY self conscious about it. My wife has always been the opposite, very comfortable about sex. I've been trying to show her that I am physically attracted to her and she just says she's confused because I've never shown interest in her so much in the past. She says she thinks I'm just acting this way because I'm losing her, and if I wasn't I would stop. How do I prove to her that I can fullfill her needs this way? I'm already going to counsiling. She still sees the OM on a somewhat daily basis. (they work together).
I can tell when she sees him because She's more distant from me at home.
I know our problem is she thinks I can't fullfill her needs sexually.. but I want to show her I can, even though I've done a bad job of it in the past.
argh!