I did some digging around last night, on the computer, and found out how to access my husband's virgin mobile account online, so basically I can see a list of every incoming and outgoing call on his phone. It actually wasn't very hard, he doesn't have a computer, so I just went on there typed in his phone number and said I didn't remember the password, it asked for an e-mail address, so I opened up an email account (so it wouldn't be mine--in case he ever gets wise) and it sent me his password.
So I began looking through every call he's made or received (It doesn't tell which is which, it just lists all calls) since he got the phone November 13th, 2004. He claims there's nothing going on with this Shannon girl, well he doesn't call her tons on his cell phone, but why would he have to....they work 2 stores apart, and he has a home phone....but last night he called her (or she called him) from her cell phone...I didn't know it was her phone, just didn't recognize the number, so I dialed it (after blocking my number, of course) and got her voice mail.
He claims when he goes "out" he's going with some obscure person named "Phil", well no one has ever met this Phil, I don't think he exists, and also, he NEVER takes his car....I think this is because I know where this little skank lives, and if I saw his car there I would go completely ballistic.
Everytime I've mentioned that I thought something was going on with her, he said I was wrong.....(his hot rod is in her garage for the winter...because our house has no garage)...that they were just "friends"...I've threatened to beat the living crap out of her on many occasions, and he says "Why Caren? There is nothing going on with her!" on one occasion he actually said "You won't touch her" which was a little too defensive for just a friend. He KNOWS I am very capable of beating her up......he knows how strong I am, and he knows I'll go completely nutso if I find out that is what's going on, so I'm given the mushroom treatment.
What does he think, that after he divorces me, I'm going to be fine with it? That I'm not going to rip her into tiny pieces for all the times I've been lied to? (By her too.....she told me to my face nothing was going on).
I'm absolutely beside myself. I have a male friend who is going through a similar situation, who has hired P.I.'s to follow his wife, he told me that he and his brother would follow him if I wanted......I'm thinking I may have to take him up on that. I have to find out once and for all what's going on......because then, I'm going to expose it to EVERYONE....including her employer....I will tell everyone at every shop in that damn mini mall exactly what's going on. And I'll also make sure that she knows that he's been sleeping with me ALL ALONG.
I just took a Xanax, hoping it kicks in soon, because I feel like going to her candy store and shoving a few hundred pieces of chocolate up her nose. God help me..........I am so angry, I don't know what I am capable of.....
-Caren <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
