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Is the book Torn Usunder an appropreiate(sp) gift for a WH, out of the house, ( Iam not sure if he is still with OW, he says no) He says he can't decide if he wants to work on the marriage or not... this has been going on for the past year.. he's been out about a month now and I plan to start plan B January 1st.
The book should arrive today and I plan on reading it before wrapping it...
On another note how sad for him on Christmas night to pack up his gifts and go back to where ever it is he is staying...
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Joined: Mar 2003
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I would warn against anything that smacks of educating or preaching to him. You read the book, can tell him you have it if he is interested, and hold onto it for recovery. Give him a nice watch and tell him time is running out...(just kidding, but not really).
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WH got me a cashmere scarf and perfume for Christmas. He moved out on Dec 23 and wanted to come over Christmas morning for gift opening. I told him it was not a good idea to leave and then come back. I had a good time opening the presents this morning with my 2 children. He is coming over tomorrow to take the kids out. I couldn't get myself to buy him a christmas gift after the betrayal. So I'll tell him that I have no gift for him this Christmas.
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