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I just read WH credit card statement, and found a charge for CARNIVAL CRUISE lines. Needless to say, he's never taken his family on a cruise. I have a whole lot of names I could call him right now. HE also bought a suit. What's the deal with being all pretty for the OP. I deserve to be treated better, but don't we all? I want to kick her a$$. I have a high-red belt in taekwondo, one step below black, have been training for almost 4 years, and boy oh boy do I feel like punching and kicking "somebody". I love sparring class, I can tell you that. God, help me!!!!!
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It's natural to want to kick the OP's a$$. But really, what good would it do? I mean your WH would probably end up feeling sorry for her and you would only make your sich worse.
Good luck
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Oh, I know that. That would so defeat everything I am working towards. The funny thing is, I even think he would like to see "girls" fighting over him, since that is what he had in high school, and to me, he is trying to re-live that now. ARRGGG!!I just hope she KNOWS I can kick her a$$ GOOD. If feels good to me to know I can do it. I don't want to be arrested, either!
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I've never blamed my wifes OM. I'd screw her to if I had the chance. Any red-blooded American male would. I blame her 100%, not OM. I have no animosity towards him whatsoever. Yes, he is most likely a scumbag, but if my wife said to me (if I was her coworker) "would you like to have sex with me?" Hell yes I would. My wife is 100% responsible, I rarely even think about OM. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> Blame your husband 100%, if not this female it will just be some OW. Good Luck
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TA,
You are right. The blame falls on the WS, but for whatever reason I still wanted/want to kick the OM's as$. He knows she is married, and has a family yet he doesn't back off. He is at fault in this too.
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I have wanted to kick my WW's OM's as* for a long time. I lay some fault on him as well as my WW. The thing is the first time I came close to him (confronted him in front of my house) he called the cops on me and ran like hell. I was not going to harm him, I don't think I could have if I tried. I felt like a total dork after the cops showed up!!!!!
I am trying to set blame aside and fix me first. One day at a time, starting with me first.
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Call the credit card company or Carnival and cancel the cruise. That should put a spot on that suit.
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