Hi All:

Is it normal that WW become so mean when you talk to them. I feel like I am the bad guy here the way she treat me. And she told me that she wants me to sign the custody paper works. I haven't got serve and I don't think she filed for the divorce yet. But she is really mean to me when I talk to her.

Hate Love,

On a personal note, yes the WS often becomes very angry and mean. From reading these posts, this is an extremely common trait that WS's share. I believe it's root is found in their extreme guilt and the necessity for that guilt to be transfered over to the BS. "He/She made me do it. I have been a saint to put up with the BS's b*llsh*t"

Often, after finding out the stunning ramifications of their indulgent carnal acts, they need to justify these acts to family and friends and MUST paint their BS in the most horrible light. This rationalization serves two purposes. First to assuage their guilt at the unimaginable suffering they see on their BS and secondly to build up the the OP as a "perfect person". Why else would you destroy your vows, M, family and life as you know it, if not for this "soulmate"

Others on this forum call it babble and fog , I prefer to call it the interminable post-coital vocal orgasm.

<small>[ January 04, 2005, 03:31 PM: Message edited by: Cymanca ]</small>

I call it: "ORAL-FLATULENCE". lol

FR

I tried to stick with Plan A and it's been almost 6th months now still same issue, Affair is over and WW is blaming me that I scared her boy friend and ruin her reputation by telling her friends that she and her boy friends name are having an affair. I talked to OM and told him that I love my wife and if he continue going to be on the picture I can never get back with my wife. OM is married w/ 4 kids I talked to him wife and told her about OM. WW found out that I run 20 years background on OM and Criminal record. WW got so mad at me and I told her my reason if OM got child molester record I want to protect my Daughter from being molested. By running back ground information I can prevent all that, WW hate me so much since then she thinks I am a BAD GUY. She always treat me like sh*t, she said she love her boy friend and she dont love me at all. I understand that but seems to be I am loosing my self and I feel like I am a bucket of water and cannot stop from over flowing with tears most of the time.

HATE LOVE,

Remember our deal ?. You bring yourself to see your doctor. If he think you don't need AD, you are off the hook.

-rh-

RH:

I dont know if I should go, I am the type of person that don't believe on the doctor. I don't know why but sometimes I think I dont need it, One reason that Wife is getting mad at me is I dont like going to the Doctor at all. I tried so many times but I really cant hang around in the hospital most of the time I walk out. I think I am insane but I hate hospital.

HATE LOVE,

I use dr. phil's line ... how is it working for you ?

-rh-

REDHAT:

I just want to let you know that I hate DOCTORS and HOSPITALS thats why I hate trying to get AD.