First thanks for all who responded to my last post. i greatly appreciate all input. but ehres my latest issue.

Normally me and my husband talk aobut 3 times (5 min or less each time) a day during his work days (he works about 13 hours a day) well today he didnt call alday. I called him around 2:45 No answer. but i was getting ready to leave. at 3:06 he had emailed me and said i am so busy today i will call sooon 143" . Then when i got home at 5 i tried again because he still had not called. no answer. i tried again about 15 min later. no anser he finnanly called about 10 min ago. I said where have you been allday. he said just busy one of the busiest days in a long time. i said why didn tyou answer the phone anytime i called he said i didnt know you called i've been at my desk except for a couple ciggerette breaks and goign to the bathroom. LI belive he was at work all day but confused how i was just lucky enough to call only when he was away from his desk?? i'm not going to say a word but these things eat me up@ just reviewing it and trying to figure it out in my head. over and over

I think right now since you don't have any concrete evidence, you need to just keep track of these incidents in a journal. That way when you do have some evidence you can correlate it to your journal.

I agree. Keep a journal and find a pattern. Be watchful and supicious. Isn't it nuts what being a BS does to us?

<small>[ January 07, 2005, 05:10 PM: Message edited by: grapegirl ]</small>

thanks guys i got a journal i will keep track of stuff and see if i finda pattern or something else. hopefully that will help! i'm just anxious and drive myself crazy!