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No fog-ridden emails today??? Hope all is well. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Hey! I'm doing ok. Thanks for asking!!!
Yes, I did get an email today. He's trying to talk me out of using my lawyer....he wants to work out all the details of the divorce without lawyers....NOT!!!!! He sent an email basically telling me that if I choose to use a lawyer then I will be very disappointed in the outcome and I will get less money from him. He's trying to scare me. Not working!!! I called my lawyer to discuss what to do. I may be having an emergency hearing for temporary child support.

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<small>[ January 12, 2005, 07:25 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>

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My FWH said the same thing, and that he knew I was "that kind of a person- just like my mother".

They are just scared because they will not be able to minipulate the whole situation with a Lawyer. Good for you for staying strong.

Also I saw your picture on Faith's thread, you are a very beautiful woman, and he is the fool. You seem wonderful from the inside too, you will find the one who will treat you as you deserve!!!

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KMEJ...awwwwwwww...thank you! I know there is someone specail out there for me....for all of us for that matter. My day will come <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

You are right...he won't be able to pull this crap with my lawyer.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Also I saw your picture on Faith's thread, you are a very beautiful woman, and he is the fool. You seem wonderful from the inside too, you will find the one who will treat you as you deserve!!! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KMEJ: TR has a picture on Faith's thread? I'm not sure who Faith is but I would enjoy seeing TR's pic. Time to take a guess on what she looks like! OK, here goes:

6'5" tall
Weight - not a clue
Blonde with mauve stripes, er "highlights"
Hairy fingers & feet
Can lift small buildings w/one hand
Believes that front teeth are made for manicures (and pedicures!) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
And can hit a basebeball further than WH!

Am I close?

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Fishracer:
<strong> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Also I saw your picture on Faith's thread, you are a very beautiful woman, and he is the fool. You seem wonderful from the inside too, you will find the one who will treat you as you deserve!!! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KMEJ: TR has a picture on Faith's thread? I'm not sure who Faith is but I would enjoy seeing TR's pic. Time to take a guess on what she looks like! OK, here goes:

6'5" tall
Weight - not a clue
Blonde with mauve stripes, er "highlights"
Hairy fingers & feet
Can lift small buildings w/one hand
Believes that front teeth are made for manicures (and pedicures!) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
And can hit a basebeball further than WH!

Am I close?

FR <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh FR, gotta get out the BIG 2X4, the one with that's steel plated and whop you upside the head big time. Grrr.....

TR, is a beautiful lady with spunk but that does not make her an Amazon Woman! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Now, go back to your drawing board and this time come up with a better pix or we will take away your sketching pencil. LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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"6'5" tall
Weight - not a clue
Blonde with mauve stripes, er "highlights"
Hairy fingers & feet
Can lift small buildings w/one hand
Believes that front teeth are made for manicures (and pedicures!)
And can hit a basebeball further than WH!

Am I close? "


LOL! Too funny! Yep...that's me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
You got the blonde hair right and I can hit a baseball.....

Orchid...thanks! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh FR, gotta get out the BIG 2X4, the one with that's steel plated and whop you upside the head big time. Grrr..... </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">TR, is a beautiful lady with spunk but that does not make her an Amazon Woman! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How are you able to know what TR looks like? Somehow I missed something. Was she on the cover of Cosmo and I haven't seen it? Please clue me in!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Now, go back to your drawing board and this time come up with a better pix or we will take away your sketching pencil. LOL!!! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">OK - so TR shaves her feet & fingers daily! I'll give in to you Orchid. She is truly an Amazon-Bombshell! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

TR: LUVYA!

FR <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Fishracer, there's a MB photo thread...Faith made a yahoo picture album. I bumped the thread up yesterday for KMEJ. (this is maddyk, btw)

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Fishracer, there's a MB photo thread...Faith made a yahoo picture album. I bumped the thread up yesterday for KMEJ. (this is maddyk, btw)
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey Maddy: Thanks. I found the photo-thread & breezed down to TR! I didn't realize that TR was so attractive! (Of course, we can't see her fingers or feet!) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Maddy - why the name change? How are you doing?

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Fishracer, I'm going okay--good days and bad, like most of us here!

I'm preparing to go into Plan B. My husband knows I post here. While I don't think that Plan B would make him come here to find my posts, it *may*. I don't care if he knows who I am, but I just as soon it not be easy to find my posts, KWIM? I use maddyk in a lot of places online so that would be just a little too easy.

Was gonna send out my letter last Sunday or MOnday, but after talking to him this weekend realized I need to Plan A just a little bit more...I had been backsliding and did not realize it. I want to get back to at least where I was before, before I Plan B. Smile...but..that's enough threadjack!

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Well, what have I been missing here.....my ears were ringing.
FR...what did you think I looked like? LOL!
Thanks for the compliment btw!!!

My WH just sent me another email telling me that it's a shame I chose to go with a lawyer..it will cost me more in the end???? HELLO???? Why is it going to cost me more for him to hire a lawyer??? He's sooooo out there!!!

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<small>[ January 13, 2005, 11:51 AM: Message edited by: TreeReich ]</small>

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">My WH just sent me another email telling me that it's a shame I chose to go with a lawyer..it will cost me more in the end???? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I went through the same thing w/WXW! Sounds like he has not talked with an attorney yet; therefore has no clue about FL divorce law. Believe me; it will be a wake-up call! Good Luck.

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Yea...I'm sure he will get a wake up call soon. He's trying to say that If I ever get remarried that he will cut my child support in half since the new husband would make enough to help. WHATEVER!!!!! My lawyer just laughed when I told her that. He has no clue!!!

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D'ya think he's getting advice from the kooze?

Is she divorced? I wonder if that's what her h told her?

They're both effing out there.

You are way too smart for him, TR. (hehe)

You need to let him know that you refuse to have a battle of the wits with an unarmed person.

(but then, it'd probably make his brain heat up and burn his hair as he tries to figure that one out)

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Tree...NOT suggesting you should tell your son about this EVER...

But I wonder what your son would say ten years down the road if he heard his father talking about cutting his child support for whatever reason.

I will never understand the child support issue. I've never gotten CS from my first husband for my son.

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Dealan-de,
He shows me everyday how much smarter than him I am. Hehe!!! Him and the OW are idiots and deserve each other!

aislinn....Hey!
Well, speaking of telling my son that.....I keep a copy of EVERYTHING so one day when he is old enough and starts wanting to know all about the divorce...I'll just hand over the file. My STBX thinks he is going to be the winner in all of this. Yeah right!!! He says I have so much anger and should let it go. It's only been 6 months and he thinks I should be happy, happy! Uggghhhhh! He lives in fantasy land.

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