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Funny how Dirtdevil didn't make an appearance
until the specific details of how much money
MT3B could pursue was posted.
Sounds like a man who is much attached to his
pocketbook. If I were you DT3B, I'd give it a
big kiss goodbye. Looks like your style of living
is about to make a significant dip.
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Mom - My email is digsblues@aol.com. Write it down. I still don't believe that this is dad, sorry. I think after you wrote about seeing the picture of the OW, she has decided to post here.
Bless you, Dad, and your family.
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Wow....I guess I haven't been keeping up here....none the less......I wish you the best in whatever you choose with your life. Only you can make a change for yourself and your kids. Be strong and take care of YOURSELF and your children. They need their mom to be strong and fight for them.
I know all of this is overwhelming...but trust us...it WILL get better. You have to take charge of your life and make it better so you and your children can live a full, happy life!!!!
I truly wish you the best. You will be in my prayers!
HUGS
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<small>[ January 26, 2005, 06:32 PM: Message edited by: TreeReich* ]</small>
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***Did you or someone prior report "dustbunny's" posts? If so, I won't. If not, I shall.***
Done.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by 2long:
<strong> Orchid:
Did you or someone prior report "dustbunny's" posts? If so, I won't. If not, I shall.
Doesn't matter whether it's d23b, the OW, or Josef Stalin. Poster is a harmful troll. All posts should be deleted and the poster banned.
end of discussion,
-ol' 2long </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I reported it and asked them to make note of the IP address for tracing purposes.
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I think I know but what is a Dustbunny post?
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Troll(s) poster from before your time...possibly college classmates messing with peoples heads etc.
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dirtdevil,
This is a marriage SUPPORT board!!
Please reread the MarriageBuilders policy and TOS you agreed to when you signed up on this site.
SUPPORT or LEAVE......
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ok, ok, will keep it clean from now on. Sorry to offend anyone.
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Justuss:
Thank you.
best,
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dirtdevil... is your soul not weary yet of all this chaos... can you not will you not... seek shelter and end your participation in all this madness.. inspite of anyone and everyone else.... can you not... will you not... or are you just bent on continueing on this self destructive path... I am asking... because this is no way to live... life is too short... the children are too precious.... and isn't enough enough... ark <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <small>[ January 26, 2005, 06:42 PM: Message edited by: ark^^ ]</small>
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The tone of this new poster is God awful. I hope it is just a troll NOT associated with MT3B, for if it is her H I pray for those boys, for this man will sink to unbelievable lows to get what he wants. It's no wonder that MT3B was so overwhelmed last night. He sounds evil, truly evil, in these posts. Absolutely the isp should be traced, and if it is him, certainly this immature cruelty would not bode well in his divorce proceedings.
A prior poster said that if it is HE (Dr.) or his OW (nurse), it is an even scarier situation. Those professions are "healing professions". Now, I know, Dr.'s are not God (though some seem to think so, and this "one" in particular fits that bill). His seeming lack of empathy to his children's emotional wellbeing (let alone what he is doing to his wife) strikes levels of depravation that I've not seen before...except maybe in "movies of the week". He should be ashamed of himself. Methinks that is impossible with this man. And, if his OW is part of this Dirt Devil dialogue, then she too has some big issues.
Going off topic for a moment here....but did I read that this baby MAY NOT be DT3B's????? Is that just speculation, or was the OW involved with more than one man during the possible time of conception? If so, the fact that DT3B's would do this to his family, for a "maybe" baby, just blows my mind (borrowing a phrase from the 60's). So, he's willing to hurt his kids, deprive them financially (as evidenced by his arrogance about how much Texas law requires him to pay), and live with a woman, and raise a baby, even if it is NOT his. Wow!!! I can only say Wow!!!!!!!
If it turns out that this troll is not DT3B's or his OW, then I take back everything I say. NOT!!!! Even without today's crappy posts, this man has gone beyond "bad wayward husband" and sunk to lows that hurt me just hearing about them.
I for one hope for this outcome:
-MT3B's accepts his leaving
-MT3B's gets emotionally healthy,and eventually starts dating nice guys (much to the Dr.'s chagrin)
-The good Dr. does the paternity test...NOT his
-The good Dr. recognizes that life with OW has all the same issues that any relationship does...and he STILL doesn't know how to deal with them
-Tries to date Mom, she says "No Thanks"
-Mom remarries, Dad stays, but very unhappy that he is paying financial support for a child that is not his (remember, money seems to be very important to this guy)
I can dream, can't I!!!
MT3B's...big hugs to you
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I am sorry to participate in this drama...but...
What will Ed do if the paternity test proves he is NOT the father of OC? Will he have burned his bridge with M23? and then have no legitimate connection with OW?
What if he is the bio dad of OC? Will M23 be first in line for child support? I sure hope so.
I will reserve my thoughts as I don't want to be disrespectful to either of them...I really wish them both the best-whatever that turns out to be.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">What will Ed do if the paternity test proves he is NOT the father of OC? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You GUESSED my wish...my gut is telling me that is EXACTLY what is going to happen...baby is going to end up being the bf she was also sleeping with at the same time.
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This thread totally makes me <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> I had the pleasure of meeting Momto3Boys and her absoultly adorable sons. First Mom is absoultly GORGEOUS. The pictures here and the Dr Phil show does NOT do her justus. I also had the Horror of viewing the OW picture. I have no comment except one, there is not a plastic surgeon in this fine country that can fix what I saw. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> OK that is the only mean thing I will say. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> As far as the boys, they are just beautiful. Each boy had a unique personality. I watch the older (on the shy side) watch TV. The middle boy worked on the computer asking a million questions, but not one time was he rude just curious (sign of intelligence) and smarter than a whip. The baby was a DOLL. He reminded me of my oldest, he was H*** bent on getting out of those dress cloths his mother made him wear. He quietly striped down to his undies as he sighed with relieve. Of course Mom was trying to get him not too, I just laughed. They were totally precious. ED the dirtdevil is the distruction of your family, your life, and those adorable children who are so unique and have so much promise is this all worth it ??? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with the OW ? Is ALL this hatred worth all this ? Is the gamble you are taking with your son's lives worth all this ? Is the gamble YOU are taking with YOUR life worth all this ? Has ANYTHING good come from this affair ? Why dont you just stop the insanity. This is not a contest to see who gets the most in the state of TX divorce court. YOU and Mom are both going to lose. The Boys are the ones that will lose the most. They will lose what is most important to them. Their intact family. Their dad in their life daily. Dad I think you may have a slight idea what that feels like. Why in heavens name would you want that for your sons ?? AND DONT say it's Mom. Just because she wont stand for you to "Keep" your GF too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Just STOP the insanity ED. Take a giant step and just STOP. Mom, I am sorry you are hurting so badly. Dont feel bad about a "melt" down if you recall I had one myself last week. Stay dark Mom. You will be fine emotionally and financially. hugs SOM
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If DT3B argues that he should be able to pay a lower amount in child support and custody because he is responsible for another child born out of wedlock, I wonder if MT3B can request that a paternity test be done.
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i said i was going to stay away from this thread, i lied
stressed out mom that is a great post. i sometimes wonder why i continue on with this forum. your post is a perfect example, you coul change the name from ed to teri and m23b to dalson and it fits perfect, this is a sad sick world we live in and it makes me want to puke!
i cant believe this world has come to this. it is a complete lack of god and consequenses that has brought us all here, its pathetic.
you know if it was like way back when, that adulterers were treated as the scum they are then we wouldnt, be living in this POS world we are living.
its dam funny that the ws has a way of turning the blame to bs which is BS. lets tatoo a big A on there forehead so they can live with the pain they have caused.
anyway just a vent.
call me lemon man 2
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O.K., another question. Or two. And how bad will it feel if OC is not Ed's, to have discarded a family as he sat by OW's side, waiting. Will the bridges all around him be so badly burned that there is no where to go? Wow, I do believe he would find hisself in a pickle! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> There are no real great endings to this, but some are definately better than others.
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Hello SOM,glad you enjoyed my kids. Thanks for hosting them and showing everybody around.
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