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#1274042 02/09/05 06:12 PM
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My best friend is going through alot with her H right now, I posted awhile back that she found out that he's been using escorts. I did tell her about MB and I'm hoping she is lurking (she's shy) but she sent me this today

I know a crying angel,
that always has a tear rolling down her cheek,
she always pretends to be happy
and she is always sweet,
but how can anyone cry this much,
is she really that weak?

She is always called an angel,
but she is always feeling defeat.
Her heart is like a puzzle,
that will never be complete.

Why does she choose to cry
I guess I can just wonder, "Why?"
What is it that has happened to her,
that always makes her cry,
and what pain has she endured,
that makes her feel so insecure?

Nobody sees her tears, but me,
nobody can feel her pain, but me...
and every time I look in the mirror,
this crying angel's all I see.

So I wrote her back this:

This angel needs to understand that she is something very special
she has something very great to offer others but most of all to herself
she's a true gem and deserves the best of anything and everything
she doesn't need to be insecure but instead love herself and accept
who she is because she is awesome

This special angel is far from being weak, her tears are from others who have
hurt her and she believed their lies. She is sweet, she is strong, she IS amazing
She doesn't need to doubt herself, or claim any defeat. Rise up little angel look within really deep
she doesn't need others to make her feel complete.
She needs to look in the mirror and see that she is worth so much
and more.

I understand her pain, I understand her tears, life can be so cruel
I may not be able to make it all go away but I have comfort I can give
to this lovely angel. I don't have to see the angel crying I feel it even from
a distance, I've always been connected to this special angel. She's meant the world
to me for many years.

Spread your wings my special angel spread them wide, believe in yourself as you start to fly
Don't ever settle for anything less than the best because that's what you are THE BEST

I hope she likes it. I hope someday the infidelity rate goes way down, the pain from it is so severe and lasts years...

#1274043 02/09/05 07:20 PM
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That was just beautiful EL.

You are both angels. And yes I hope she can log on someday and let the angels here help heal her pain.

There is only one thing more unspeakable than the betrayal of a loved one in my opinion, as a mother anyway.

Blessings to your friend.


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