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Plan B Letter ? Send to OW with note??
#1277059 02/15/05 11:56 PM
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The book sent the letter to OP as well with a note. Should I do that or not?

Katie
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R U dealing with the same type of OW? Do you really think it will do any good?

Is the OW a pawn or a key player (manipulator) of this A? If it is the later, it may not do any good.

The choice is yours.

L.
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Katie-

I did send my WH's OW a copy of the letter with a note at the bottom like they do in the book, actually it said exactly what it did in the book.

I don't know if it's right for everyone, but it was something I felt I needed to do, her letter probably arrived yesterday (as it's Wednesday morning now) so it'll explain his foul mood...LMAO, I'm sure that will make her really happy....Mwah ha ha suffer b*tch.

-Caren
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She is definatly a manipulator. "I'll do anything for you; you gave your wife chances, she didn't change, time for you to be happy; Your not abandoning your family, you are making a new home where love and happiness will be......."
Those are a few statements she has made. So you are right, I think. I dont think sending it to her will do any good, if anything it will incite her to try and keep her hooks in him even harder.

Katie

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