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don't have much time to post. Need some specific answers please.
1 need info on comp spy ware
2 can it be installed remotely
3 how dectectable
4 anti virus on or off, will it stop the install
5 wifes work comp has firewall, can it get past it
6 what kind of info can be gleened from it
7 have you actually used this before
Thanks for all replys, you all are really great
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The best one I have found is Spector. It is completely undetectable. It records everything. It will get past just about anything. You can find more info at: www.spectorsoft.com <small>[ February 16, 2005, 07:30 AM: Message edited by: frozen1229 ]</small>
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Be VERY careful about installing it on your WW's work computer. It is definitely illegal unless you own the business and the computers. IF there is an IT department and they CAN detect it, you could be charged with all sorts of things.
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From a legal and civil standpoint I wouldnt even think of installing it on a work computer. Opens yourself up to charges and lawsuits
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thanks guys, i had a feeling co comp was off limits. Unfortunately thats where all the stuff is happening. If i get her password and log onto her work email im still in hotwater, right?
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Oh you would be in a world of hurt! Okay an analogy. HOw would you feel if a stranger came into YOUR house and installed spyware? AND had access to your financials and all your personal stuff! Now add that to the fact that this is a business and they have competitors, etc. DON'T GO THERE! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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You can't legally use her password if she intended for you not to. Installing spyware on home computers is iffy, too, and be sure you check state laws, which in some cases are more restrictive than federal laws.
For the work computer, you might get somewhere by informing her management because they can legally do the monitoring. They could see it as a productivity issue and a proper use of facilities issue. Of course, it might lead to some type of discipline or termination, so you have to consider that ahead of time. At the point you tell her management, it's out of your hands.
Assuming you already searched the house, car, purse, and clothing, keep doing it once in a while. It's almost impossible for a wayward spouse to maintain perfect secrecy all the time.
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do you have any info you could email me about this...my x went thru my laptop and took the hard drive and is disseminating data off it and is trying to use it to extort an agreement from me...i am in va
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she sent the data accross state lines and used a federal government network to do this
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she sent the data accross state lines and used a federal government network to do this...gotta go to work....knowalibis@msn.com
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