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calling all computer geeks #1277145 02/16/05 07:53 AM
Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4 D damnit OP Junior Member
OP damnit Junior Member D Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4	don't have much time to post. Need some specific answers please. 1 need info on comp spy ware 2 can it be installed remotely 3 how dectectable 4 anti virus on or off, will it stop the install 5 wifes work comp has firewall, can it get past it 6 what kind of info can be gleened from it 7 have you actually used this before Thanks for all replys, you all are really great

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277146 02/16/05 08:29 AM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 2,033 F frozen1229 Member
frozen1229 Member F Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 2,033	The best one I have found is Spector. It is completely undetectable. It records everything. It will get past just about anything. You can find more info at: www.spectorsoft.com <small>[ February 16, 2005, 07:30 AM: Message edited by: frozen1229 ]</small>

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277147 02/16/05 08:35 AM
Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,575 BC, Canada F fightingalone-again Member
fightingalone-again Member F Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,575 BC, Canada	Be VERY careful about installing it on your WW's work computer. It is definitely illegal unless you own the business and the computers. IF there is an IT department and they CAN detect it, you could be charged with all sorts of things.

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277148 02/16/05 08:57 AM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 1,193 J john3479 Member
john3479 Member J Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 1,193	From a legal and civil standpoint I wouldnt even think of installing it on a work computer. Opens yourself up to charges and lawsuits

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277149 02/17/05 08:52 AM
Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4 D damnit OP Junior Member
OP damnit Junior Member D Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4	thanks guys, i had a feeling co comp was off limits. Unfortunately thats where all the stuff is happening. If i get her password and log onto her work email im still in hotwater, right?

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277150 02/17/05 08:55 AM
Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,575 BC, Canada F fightingalone-again Member
fightingalone-again Member F Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,575 BC, Canada	Oh you would be in a world of hurt! Okay an analogy. HOw would you feel if a stranger came into YOUR house and installed spyware? AND had access to your financials and all your personal stuff! Now add that to the fact that this is a business and they have competitors, etc. DON'T GO THERE! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277151 02/17/05 11:11 AM
Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 448 T tmmx Member
tmmx Member T Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 448	You can't legally use her password if she intended for you not to. Installing spyware on home computers is iffy, too, and be sure you check state laws, which in some cases are more restrictive than federal laws. For the work computer, you might get somewhere by informing her management because they can legally do the monitoring. They could see it as a productivity issue and a proper use of facilities issue. Of course, it might lead to some type of discipline or termination, so you have to consider that ahead of time. At the point you tell her management, it's out of your hands. Assuming you already searched the house, car, purse, and clothing, keep doing it once in a while. It's almost impossible for a wayward spouse to maintain perfect secrecy all the time.

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277152 02/18/05 04:41 AM
Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4 D damnit OP Junior Member
OP damnit Junior Member D Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 4	She is the managment

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277153 02/18/05 04:57 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317 K knowalibis Member
knowalibis Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317	do you have any info you could email me about this...my x went thru my laptop and took the hard drive and is disseminating data off it and is trying to use it to extort an agreement from me...i am in va

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277154 02/18/05 04:59 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317 K knowalibis Member
knowalibis Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317	she sent the data accross state lines and used a federal government network to do this

Re: calling all computer geeks #1277155 02/18/05 04:59 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317 K knowalibis Member
knowalibis Member K Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 317	she sent the data accross state lines and used a federal government network to do this...gotta go to work....knowalibis@msn.com

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