What a perfect description of how to get out of an abusive relationship by taking the step to be considerate of your spouse's feelings and not do what the spouse considers to be negative, no matter how much you disagree.

I saved your post.

My H doesn't want me on MB. I justified it as a way to meet my need to talk through things, to keep me from being isolated.

It's BS. You didn't wake up KMEJ, apparently, but you helped me. Thanks.

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