I usually post on just found out , but it has been 5 months since d-day... and I am at a loss. My H. knows that I check his phone and his phone bill. For the past couple of days he has been really mean to me. I am not sure why.. He was in school for his work on monday and tuesday. well all day on monday he didn't even call me until 3:30 in the afternoon.. I was a little hurt he said they ate lunch in and that was the 1st break they got. So on tuesday No call again until 1:00 for like 2 minutes. So I said to him after checking his phone bill online.. he was on a no number call for 26 mins, at 7:41am. I told him I was trying to call him and he didn't answer, why was he on the phone he tells me know I was in class. Lie. so I am upset about this all day and when he calls me later I am a little pissed off, and so he get even madder. well he came in to see me at my second job and won't really even speak to me at all, So I confront him on the no calling and all he can do is scream at me I didn't do anything. I was in class, and he has been repeating this to me. So then this morning ( we coach a girls softball team) he is writing the letter to the girls, and asks me where practice is a blows up at me because it is not at the field he wants, I apoligize to him and he is still mad so I ask him what is really wrong, and he just goes off about how I do this 1/2 [censored] and is really mean again, I ask him why he is being so mean to me and, it all comes dow to sex with him, we just moved and hav had sex 1 time this month, so he yells at me that we are just roommates, and I said to him "God strike you dead you haven't been talking to anyone) He said no ( lie I have proof it was someone, I don't know who) so he proceeds to throw his phone down and step on it and break it because he said it is only a leash. he says it has been 5 months get over it, and I said how can I be sure that you won't do this in another 5 months, he then says I can't say that I will be hear in 5 months. What is all that about, Maybe I bring up things to much... He just got really defensive, Kinda like when I found out about the A... Am I overreacting or what . I can't seem to let it go ... I need help It may be to late I haven't talked to him since he broke his phone. He is just so defensive... Why...
