1.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=037595

2.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=037473

3.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=35;t=005206

4.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=005106

5.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=005105#000001

6.http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=005087#000002

Miguel,
I don't think this is an effective way to get answers. If all you want to do is vent, that's ok.
But if you want help, try to stick to one thread and follow thru with the questions you are asked. Several people have answered you and suggested things you could and should do about your kids.
Have you followed their suggestions and now have some updates?

with so many different stories here not everyone has the time to check all your threads just to try to find out what it is that you need.

try to write a summary and keep to one thread. It will be easier for you to follow and also for others.

I will check the boards to see your updates.

cc

Hey kidder

You still be shoutin' bra' but you not be doing any of the hard stuff mate.

1. Calm yo' se'f down. be rational. Married or divirced you need to be rational.A-ds or exercise, or meditation...whatever works.
2. Protect yerself. Financial, access to kids etc etc. You be raped by a divirce other wise with the UK's mediaeval family law.
3. Inform yourself. Read Surviving an affair and STUDY ( not just read the examples on these boards). Knowledge is power.

Stop flailing Mate. Ain;t doing nothing but scaring the chickens.

We can help you but only if you channel your panic and pain into doing the RIGHT things mate.

Email me if it helps, but I can't tell U much else till you DO SOMETHING other than COMPLAIN <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

{{{{mig}}}}

You do these things and I GUARANTEE you will feel so much better in 12 weeks than you can possibly imagine now.