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However, this can NOT continue if I am to be in True Goddess form. So, I will be 'forced' to go shop for a new Goddess worthy outfit or two today.


YES..you need to THROW OUT THOSE PANTS!!!!

BAD KARMA..or FENG SHUI..or WHATEVER...

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I am in rare goddess form this morning! I have my hair long and free and flowing (btw, my hair is sandy strawberry blonde). I am wearing a lovely white cotton shirt with light blue blossoms on it that remind me of cherry blossoms.

I am going to be PRETTY today--I decided!!


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I am going to be PRETTY today--I decided!!


Well since you DECIDED that you are PRETTY..you DEFINITELY ARE...

It only takes MAKING THAT DECISION...

Although the PRETTY HAIR AND PRETTY SHIRT...HELP... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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I have some very lacy and racy black and puprle lace undergarments on.

Electric blue tight fitted shirt that brings out the blue of my eyes... blue jeans and belt (haven't been able to wear a shirt tucked in for a long time.

Eyeliner, mascara and lipstick and pretty perfume.... and asked WH over to look at garage door tonight after work. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> Yeah Still!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />


Go Go Goddess! Go!!!

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Last weekend Mim, I went on a bike run with my fiance with a little over 900 other Harley riders to benefit MDA (Muscular Dystrophy) and we raised close to $90K for the charity.

Now I think this is worthy of the Goddess thread, because I don't really like riding on that bike. I like the sound of a nice harley, and I like the idea of a really well kept man dressed up in harley attire riding his harley...

But I don't like to actually BE on the harley. I don't like the way the womens bikers clothes look, and I don't want to dress like that.

But I went, and I rode on back and I wore a Harley hat and T-sirt and my really, really nice blackish brown leather pointy toe, high heeled boots and a great pair of jeans, with kind of a cute black leather jacket.

It ended up being fun and I am very proud of the money we raised to help out the MDA...but mostly I am proud of myself for the effort I am making to do things that in my former non MB life would never have bothered to do.

Okay, my contribution to the Goddess thread on how I am trying to grow and broaden my views of BIKER WOMEN. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Weaver,

Sounds to me like you are bring a level of CLASS and Goddess style to the world of 'Harley' women!

I have many friends who are Harley folks,,some 'traditional' bikers, but many business men & women.

ALL are among the most giving and generous people you would ever meet. Lots and lots og great charity work.

Great job on expanding your recreational limits and doing it Goddess Style!


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Thanks Bugsmom! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

I found it Mimosa! Did you see?

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Let's remember to DRESS UP and not to DRESS DOWN..for the weekend ladies...

I'm getting "CUTE"...

How about you?

Makeup..AT LEAST..lipstick, mascara and blush...

NO GRUNGY CLOTHES..

bodyspray/cologne/perfume...what have you...

a smile on your face...

conversation on your lips...

I'M SO HAPPY IT'S SATURDAY!!!

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Okay, my contribution to the Goddess thread on how I am trying to grow and broaden my views of BIKER WOMEN.

weaver, my fellow BIKER CHICK friend!!

Mel<--Goldwing Girl <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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I'm not feeling goddessy today. Is there such a word as 'goddessy'? Just too much to do. Nothing in my life seems very goddessy right now. I'll get through this patch and things will look better.

Think I'm dreading another several hours of power point for tomorrow. I spend many more hours getting worship service ready for church than the thing lasts. Hey, that's it!!!!

[color:"purple"]Maybe I am the goddess of the conservative worship service. I can make all those men look like they don't know what they are doing. I can affect the participation of several hundred people! Maybe that is my goddess thing for the night. Hmmm, I wonder how God would feel about that use of the word. Well, He's omniscient. He knows I know He has All The Power. I just use the computer to help.[/color]

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Absolutely... GODDESSY is a WORD...

It's what YOU are, CINDY....every day in every way.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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Maybe I am the goddess of the conservative worship service. I can make all those men look like they don't know what they are doing. I can affect the participation of several hundred people! Maybe that is my goddess thing for the night. Hmmm, I wonder how God would feel about that use of the word. Well, He's omniscient. He knows I know He has All The Power. I just use the computer to help.


SUPER GODDESSY!!!!! You're ADORABLE!!!


I came on to proclaim...ANOTHER DRESSUP DAY....

HAPPY SUNDAY!!!!


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Today I will dress nice. Tomorrow I have to dig three foundation holes so the contractor can install water "wells". Then I have to help unplug a toilet.

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HAPPY SUNDAY, STELLA!!!

What about GODDESS UNDIES for tomorrow?

I think your WORK PLANS for tomorrow are SUPER GODDESSY!!!

"I AM WOMAN..HEAR ME ROAR"...

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Oh, yes! Goddessy undies are a thing to celebrate. However, they are harder to find when you are no longer 25 and svelte.

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LOL!!! I can't believe no one posted anything after the Undies comments!<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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Rin AKA Strivn said this:

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I'm in the lot of jamming in the car often...dancing in my seat, singing, sometimes, at the top of my lungs, acting silly with the boys in the car...


I think we should have a GODDESS THEME..during which we JAM in our CARS and think of each other...OUR HOUR OF POWER...

My vote is for GLAMOUROUS by FERGIE....flossin'...flossin'

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Oops, I misspelled it!!

G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S


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Hmmmm, right now, for me, it's
Rihanna!

I've always been the jammin' type. My dogs hear me arriving home every afternoon (as well as my neighbors).

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JUST FINE

You know I love music
And every time I hear something hot
It makes me wanna move
It makes me wanna have fun
But it’s something about this joint right here
This joint right here
Its makes me wanna…..Woooh

Let it go……
Can’t let this thing called love get away from you
Feel free right now, going do what you want to do
Can’t let nobody take it away, from you, from me, from we
No time for moping around, are you kidding?
And no time for negative vibes, cause I’m winning
It’s been a long week, I put in my hardest
Gonna live my life, feels so good to get it right

So I like what I see when I’m looking at me
When I’m walking past the mirror
No stress through the night, at a time in my life
Ain’t worried about if you feel it
Got my head on straight, I got my mind right
I aint gonna let you kill it
You see I wouldn’t change my life, my life’s just…..

Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Just fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
You see I wouldn’t change my life, my life’s just fine

Feels so good, when you’re doing all the things that you want to do
Get the best out of life, treat yourself to something new
Keep your head up high
In yourself, believe in you, believe in me
Having a really good time, I’m not complaining
And I’m a still wear a smile if it raining
I got to enjoy myself regardless
I appreciate life, I’m so glad I got mine

So I like what I see when I’m looking at me


When I’m walking past the mirror
Aint worried about you and what you gonna do
I’m a lady so I must stay classy
Got to keep it hot, keep it together
If I want to get better
You see I wouldn’t change my life, my life’s just…..
Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Just fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
You see I won’t change my life, my life’s just fine

I aint gon’ let nothing get in my way
(I ain't gone let nobody bring me down, no, no, no)
No matter what nobody has to say
(No way, no way, no way)
I ain’t gon’ let nothing get in my way
No matter what nobody has to say

Feels so good, when you’re doing all the things that you want to do
Get the best out of life, treat yourself to something new
It’s a really good thing to say
That I won’t change my life, my life’s just fine

Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Just fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
You see I won’t change my life, my life’s just fine

So I like what I see when I’m looking at me
When I’m walking past the mirror
No stress through the night, at a time in my life
Ain’t worried about if you feel it
Got my head on straight, I got my mind right
I ain’t gonna let you kill it
You see I wouldn’t change my life, my life’s just…..

Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
Just fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, fine, ooooh
You see I wouldn’t change my life, my life’s just fine


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Count me in on the Hour of Goddess Power every day!

I love all those songs! I think I will select something new every day!

Do not forget to wear your Diva shades!


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