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I heard a beautiful song on my way home tonight and I thought I'd share. My new favorite song is called "My Give A Damn's Busted" and I play it several times per day just to get me through the day. It fits my situation to a T. However one can dream of how you wish it was and this is what I wish for my STBX H to feel for me:
It is called Making Memories of us by Keith Urban
[color:"purple"] I'm gonna be here for you baby I'll be a man of my own word Speak the language in a voice that you have never heard I wanna sleep with you forever And I wanna die in your arms In a cabin by a meadow where the wild bees swarm
(Chorus:) And I'm gonna love you like nobody loves you And I'll earn your trust making memories of us
I wanna honor your mother And I wanna learn from your pa I wanna steal your attention like a bad outlaw I wanna stand out in a crowd for you A man among men I wanna make your world better than it's ever been
Chorus
We'll follow the rainbow Wherever the four winds blow And there'll be a new day Comin' your way I'm gonna be here for you from now on This you know somehow You've been stretched to the limits but it's alright now
And I'm gonna make you a promise If there's life after this I'm gonna be there to meet you with a warm, wet kiss
And I'm gonna love you like nobody loves you And I'll earn your trust makin' memories of us And I'm gonna love you like nobody loves you And I'll win your trust makin memories of us [/color]
One is allowed to dream, right? It'll never happen but gosh dang it, I like the line "I'll win your trust making memories of us."
Oh well dream on. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by suzychapstick; 04/02/05 11:36 PM.
BW 42
WH 41
M 14 yrs
ds12,dd7
PA ?? mo/yrs.
Day 12/6/04, 3/20/05 and 9/2/05
"Fool me once, fool me twice, and he fooled me a third time?" I never really found out for sure...
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Well, life without hope isn't much of a life at all...
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Do these WS realize what they're doing to us? All that love and caring waiting for them and they treat it like crap.
Susie, we need to get our Goddess acts together. We are beyond this.
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS XCH: Clueless 2-DS: Bigger than me 1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers 6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved 7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about? Mediation set for November Final dissolution in January 2007. 2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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Grapegirl, They obviously have no clue. If I'd had an A I think I would be apologizing and feeling so crappy that I could've done something like that to my H. The fact that he doesn't show much remorse tells me that he still really has no clue. That is why I am in the process of filling out the divorce papers (from a mediator, actually). I truly believe there will be no remorse since there hasn't been yet.
I need to check out that Godess thread!! Havent had a chance to do that yet!!
Suzy
BW 42
WH 41
M 14 yrs
ds12,dd7
PA ?? mo/yrs.
Day 12/6/04, 3/20/05 and 9/2/05
"Fool me once, fool me twice, and he fooled me a third time?" I never really found out for sure...
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I was experiencing no remorse for a long time too. Then it came in a flood. Not to say it will, but ya never know. I didn't think it would happen either. In fact she told me it wouldn't.
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