I have been trying to post an update for some time now, and I am told I do not have a valid host when I try to post at home... Now I am at work, and not suppose to be on here, but I am hopeing that some of you will have advise so I can access this place from home. I have tried changeing to the flat mode, and everyother thing I see others have tried and I still get the same reply. Please help!

I couldn't post either - tried all the tricks people recommended. So I re-registered and it's been great since. I also log on through Mozilla Firefox instead of internet explorer and have yet to be logged out. Of course, I have now reverted to being a junior member with a handful of posts but the frustration had got the better of me. Why not re-register as KEMJ or something so we know it's you? TT

When you get home, try this on your computer:

"Clear Cookies
If you are experiencing difficulties, you may wish to manually clear your cookies. Click the “My Home” link at the top of the navigation bar, then click “My Cookies” in the Maintenance section. You can then see the cookies that the UBB.threads™ software has set for you. If you click the “expire cookies” button, the cookies will be cleared."

My other suggestion would be to download Mozilla Firefox and use that as your Internet Server for logging in to Marriage Builders.
(Keep Internet Explorer also, it os ok to have two Internet Icons on your desktop page.)

Good Luck, Julie

Did you try downloading Mozilla as i suggested...most people have been successful after doing that! try that when you get home!!!

I did down load Mozilla a few days ago, and no luck- maybe I am accessing it wrong. Why can I get it to work at work with out changeing anything and I use Internet Explorer here, and I can not get it to work at home, that is so weird. Is it possible my H did something to make me unable to use the site???

I was wondering if I could bend your ear (or eyes) a little. Things with H and I have been so rocky for years, and it goes in cycles. Right now we are in a good cycle, he is in a great mood because he just bought a motorcycle that we can not really afford, and is so excited about it that everything else is fine in his world. He has been helping with the kids, went grocery shopping with me, giving me hugs, and an occasional kiss if I ask.... He also told me he did not care what I did with my hair (he use to always insist that it be LONG, and everytime I would even trim it he would be upset- now he is saying what ever I want is fine). I hate to always look for the bad in things, but up to now I would just be floating that things were good and he was being nice to me, but I can not do that any longer, I know where this is going to go now. The high he is feeling from his bike will soon wear off and he will go back. My bigger thing is that he does not notice me, I wear "cute" clothes and he does not take note, I dress where others turn heads, and neighbors tell me I look good (unprompted) and H does not take a second glance at me, or try anything (it has been over a week). His phone is ringing in the middle of the night and and girls are calling him during the day, he will even talk to them in front of me, saying that should prove there is nothing going on. He has agreed to start watching what he eats with me, as he now wants to lose a few pounds, and spends time on his clothes and hair and ect.... He left at 7am yesterday, claiming he wanted to run errands and let me sleep- but he left the 3 kids home, and did not answer his phone while gone, he did call back a little while later....; granted he was only gone about an hour and a half, but he had his phone why did he not answer? Am I being paranoid?

KMEJ, first I had the same posting problem at work and just expired my cookies. Now I can post! Woo hoo!

The second reason I am responding to you is that it sounds like your H is back in an A. I am sorry but read what you wrote again. No SF, spending time on his clothes, hair etc. running " errands", getting calls in the middle of the night... What would you say to me if I described those behaviors? KMEJ, unless something drastic happens I am moving on without my WH. I believe it is time for you to consider where you life should go. All of God's blessings on you.

Those are my thought as well.. I am just also afraid that I might be making more out of it then it is, that is why I posted it here to see if it was only me that thought so. He called me about an hour ago and talked to me for like a half an hour while I was driving, he rarely does that, and he was nice and asking what I was making for dinner, and to see if his brother and his fiance could eat too. Weird.

I had my third and final interview for that job I applied for on Saturday, and I should know if I am getting it or not this week. That is the next phase of my plan. I too am making arrangements to survive with or with out my H. I do not want to live this way forever. There has to be more out there, some form of continued happiness. Someone who will love me for me, not for what they were stuck with. I will survive, and make my kids proud.

okay I am trying this at home after deleteing my cookies

yea it worked!!!! Yippee!!! Okay so I am easily pleased...