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I made a promise to my husband that I would have NO contact with her or her husband, but he is still talking to her and won't stop so I emailed her husband telling him everything. Am I wrong?????? I broke a promise to my husband, but he has been lying to me! Did I do the right thing?? Please, somebody encourage me!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
The greatest happiness is that you can have is knowing that you do not necessarily require happiness.
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You did the right thing...exposure to "sunlight" is what kills that FUNGUS called affairs. No more secrecy and that false "Bridges of Madison County" luster falls to the floor QUICKLY!
He's going to be MAD, but he was still in contact with OW...what were you supposed to do...let him have his cake AND eat it to?
You done good...
WNB
43yr old FWH who has rediscovered morality
Divorced: 03 February 2006
XW: My threads say it all
"Well, I guess if a person never quit when the going got tough, they wouldn't have anything to regret for the rest of their life..."
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I was in same situation with my FWW. I made promise, with conditions, that I wouldn't contact OM, etc. She broke conditions so I was free to act and did so.
I think I would view your situation as the same.
Vaya con dios
ktu136
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Well, batten down the hatches and get ready for the storm. Your husband will be FURIOUS. That is how they all are. Then he will probably tell you that there is no hope for your marriage now. That is what they all say.
But you did the best thing to preserve your marriage and end the affair.
Post here, or in general questions and let us know how it goes. Remember to be calm and tell him you want to save your marriage.
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