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Well it has been a very long time for me since my last post. It is still just me and my girls, yes we still have a hamster and yes my ww still hase her om. I do belive now that I have found new reasons to be here on this planet. My girls are starting to see mom again, my ww and I have started talking and to my suprise I have been able to help her out with her om.
He is still a jerk to her, he is in Vegas right now with another woman, my ww is very upset, and the nice part is I am able to be helpful to her, and that has brought her closer to the girls all over again. We are on our way to the big D but we have started a friendship that I belive breaks all the rules, but it is working for my little girls and that makes me happy. I just wanted to say hi, I have much more to say yet for now it is nice to be back.
Just me my girls and a hamster.
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Hey Carguy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for the update... it's good to see you again!
I got home around the 4th of May and have been chilling out and spending lots of time with Mrs. RIF and our girls...
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You are a mighty fine man hamster boy. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Is that hamster behaving?
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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Yes the hamster is doing very well, she has a car now so I dont see her as much as I used to, but they all leave the nest at some time. The best part is how well my girls are doing, I can hear them right now sharing a bit of sisterly love <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> It is nice to see the light at the end of the tunel.
Just me my girls and a hamster.
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The best part of today is the understanding that everything that has gone on is not my fault. I did not put a gun to her head and say have an A. The fog she lives in is her's and her's alone. I have two great kids that make me smile every day, I have a good job and I am a good person. Just becuse my WW wants to try to be with someone else, thats fine, it is not a shot at my character. I am and always will be a good man who loves his kids and his WW. She knows she can come home when she is ready for NC..some day she may, but in a year and a half, I no longer hold my breath, and I think that is a good thing. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Just me my girls and a hamster.
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Carguy1, You seem like just the right man to help out a newby: James. Your situations seem similar. Oh, sorry, forgot to intro myself. Hi, I'm AD (BH, 40-something). -AD
A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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