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ATL - Sorry to bother you, but will you please read EEMD's post ... http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...;page=0#2731788 Does he have any legal options at this point? Your help and advice is greatly appreciated!! Thanks in advance,
Whisper
FWW (me) 32 / BH 33
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FWW (me) 32 / BH 33
M - 12 yrs / 0 kids
EA/PA lasted 1.5 yrs
NC - 5/25/05 ... in recovery ever since!!!
"If you love something, set it free ..."
(Just glad I was smart enough to come back!)
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Well, not knowing all the aspects of the situation, there is not much I can do. However, if he is unhappy with his lawyer, he needs to make an appointment with the lawyer to discuss the options.
I have no idea why the lawyer would want to get the divorce done prior to a county commissioner's meeting, but there could be a good reason. He needes to discuss this with the lawyer.
If he really wants the divorce put on hold, he needs to put that in a letter and send it certified to that lawyer. I would also hand-deliver a copy, stating exactly how he wants to proceed.
May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,
John
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Thank you very much. BTW - Love that name! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Whisper
FWW (me) 32 / BH 33
M - 12 yrs / 0 kids
EA/PA lasted 1.5 yrs
NC - 5/25/05 ... in recovery ever since!!!
"If you love something, set it free ..."
(Just glad I was smart enough to come back!)
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Well, not knowing all the aspects of the situation, there is not much I can do. However, if he is unhappy with his lawyer, he needs to make an appointment with the lawyer to discuss the options.
I have no idea why the lawyer would want to get the divorce done prior to a county commissioner's meeting, but there could be a good reason. He needes to discuss this with the lawyer.
If he really wants the divorce put on hold, he needs to put that in a letter and send it certified to that lawyer. I would also hand-deliver a copy, stating exactly how he wants to proceed. well my lawyer drop out of the case. This was my second lawyer. They don't want to keep going back forth to court they both told me that the wife wants this done and so does her lawyer. The wifes lawyer has to travel from a diffrent city and he is also rushing this. How can I stop the commissions hearing which is next month what happens at this hearing is that the divorce. I would like to stop the hearing I need time to get a new lawyer.what can I do.
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EEMD -
I'm starting to learn that every state has its own rules when it comes to family/divorce law. Both Aslan and my attorney-friend in N. Car. say that you really need to find a new lawyer in your state. See if your state has Legal Aid to get low-cost legal assistance. Then, do as Aslan has recommended ...
"If he really wants the divorce put on hold, he needs to put that in a letter and send it certified to that lawyer. I would also hand-deliver a copy, stating exactly how he wants to proceed."
Whisper
FWW (me) 32 / BH 33
M - 12 yrs / 0 kids
EA/PA lasted 1.5 yrs
NC - 5/25/05 ... in recovery ever since!!!
"If you love something, set it free ..."
(Just glad I was smart enough to come back!)
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Just got a letter from the lawyer I had. And its says that my lawyer was granted to withdraw. I cannot send a letter to a lawyer I had?
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Well, not knowing all the aspects of the situation, there is not much I can do. However, if he is unhappy with his lawyer, he needs to make an appointment with the lawyer to discuss the options.
I have no idea why the lawyer would want to get the divorce done prior to a county commissioner's meeting, but there could be a good reason. He needes to discuss this with the lawyer.
If he really wants the divorce put on hold, he needs to put that in a letter and send it certified to that lawyer. I would also hand-deliver a copy, stating exactly how he wants to proceed. my lawyer didn't want me to get the divorce done before the commissioners hearing but was rushing the hearing date which is next month. I didn't want the commissioners hearing at all and also me and the lawyer didn't see I to eye on things with my case such as spousal support for me, child support, custody,etc. My lawyer just wanted to let me throw all my rights way. And I was not happy with this at all.also what happen at a commissioners hearing what if I don't have a lawyer at that time.
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