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Hello all -
My marriage is in need of help.
I recently confessed my sins to my wife and although she seems willing to make our marriage last a lifetime I know we will need God guiding us both through the coming weeks, months and years. She is such a good person. God honestly blessed me with a miracle when He brought her to me. Now I have have put that in jeopardy and I know we can only be saved by God's grace.
Please pray for us.
Thank you.
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Joined: Sep 2002
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loveherso,
Lifting you and your W up.
You've been given good info in your other posts. Time and consistancy is what will bring her around. Be an open book. Your W has a lot to process and really hasn't had the time to go through the gamit of emotions she will feel. Regardless of those feels she will have, you really need to be safe for her. She's entitled to all of those feelings. She'll get over them eventually and in her time. She will have triggers (as you will) that will bring her back to square one.
Time and consistancy and being safe for her to express her feelings. Validate her feelings. Unless she has been unfaithful to you you will never know how she feels, but you can say that you understand why she would feel a particular way and allow it.
God bless you on your recovery.
S&C
No man likes to have his intelligence or good faith questioned, especially if he has doubts about it himself. - Henry Brooks Adams
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