Given that, thanks to Melisa (is her BF a MM?), your wife and MM have shut down the normal ways of contacting his wife, I have an idea.

Place an ad in the major newspaper for that area. The ad should read:

"Mrs. OMW, I have important information for you in regard to a situation that is having a serious and detrimental effect on your life, as well as mine. Please contact me ASAP at xxx-xxx-xxxx."

You can do this in the personals section, but I would go for spending the money to place a small box ad.

LC

"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"

BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.