[color:"green"] [/color] HELP! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />Husband is harsh and critical...can do no wrong...has a hard time seeing his faults...I need to pray intently because the way he treats "my" kids is really hard for me...I have been reading the posts on Emotional Needs and verbal abuse. I don't know if that is what it is exactly but it is harsh and unnecessary. He is so hard sometimes and not "graceful". So, I don't feel happy about today too much. recently, I tried to help him by asking a guy from our church to help with yard work (he is separated and we are helping him, so he was happy to help) and my husband was angry. He said it is like saying he can't handle it (control issues!) and he was hurt by it and felt disrespected...Was I wrong (the grass hadn't been cut in a month)I was trying to help and then I became mad because nothing is ever "help" to him (done his way). I need prayer to even to be close to him. Suggestions? WE are going out to eat tonight...I will make an effort.