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Why do I feel this way? He had the A and now we're back together after he told me that he loved her and didn't want me anymore. Now he says he has God in his heart and he knows he did wrong, blah, blah, blah!!! I feel like I'm falling out of love! He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. What do I do?

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Have you read any books about affairs? What about counselling? Are you both actively rebuilding the marriage sorting through what happened?

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What will be your first step?

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Yes, we are seeing a MC once a week. I am reading two books. We are trying to sort through what happened. But he came home 6 weeks ago and we went through the whole story, meanwhile he was calling her everyday. All of the questions I had asked him he answered with lies. Now I cannot seem to go through it all again. Since he was calling her for the six weeks and did admit to loving her, I just can't see how it would all go away because he says so.


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